I am extremely protective of my fiance's body and I wanted to know what other people think of this scenario: When my fiance gets to her house, she will normally take off her bra and change into a t-shirt or a spaghetti strap shirt and you can easily see her boobs and nipples through the shirt (obviously). Well, she still lives with her parents and brother, which that doesn't really bother me, but when her brother brings his friends around and things of that sort, she wears these kinds of things and thinks nothing of it. When i say something to her, she gets mad. What do ya'll think about this scenario? Is it me or her that's out of line?
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Protectiveness of my Fiance's Body
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sounds like she's the type that enjoys male attention. How old are the two of you?
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i think you're out of line
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My g/f never does that...whenever her brother had friends over she would always run upstairs and throw a sweatshirt on. She is also protective of her body like I am. I think your g/f is out to get their attention it prolly makes her feel good knowing that the guys are staring every second they getwhich would piss me off....but on the other hand they can look but they cant touch...at the end of the day she is going to be with you! and only you! she isnt sharing is she? then I guess no harm done.But I see what your saying cuz when my g/f gets out of my lifted up superduty truck she slides out with her mini skirt on all spreadlegged...all the guys always turn their heads and she just says she cant help it and that it dosent bother her. She tends to have one labia always poking out the side of her panties so the guys get quite the show!Just like you I have confronted her and she always says " It dosent matter dont worry about it ill never see them again"
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if thats who she is,you shouldn't try change it.you marry a person for who they are,not who you want them to be.well,it should be that way.
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does she not wear a bra cause she thinks its uncomfortable?how visible are we talking about here?does she know that it gets the guys attention?in any case.. girls like having lots of attention from guys. i hate it but its them, nothing you can do about it
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well i do the same thing, Im come home and change into something confortable and yeah we like the attention, i mean where else can you be sexy and safe and not have to worry about guys. Dont worry about it, its not big deal. Its better than us being dress like that in public.
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nice,well said lindsay
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Well, I had a friend who's sister who is also a close friend (age 14) would walk around the house nude, with or without guests. Nobody thinks a thing of it - well, the guests may have a lot to say (and entertain in their heads). Normal is all in the mind of the individual. Sometimes, I would get concerned about her - like the way some people may take it - but if it doesn't bother too much if she doesn't mind one little bit...
