Am i gay??

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(im a 15 year old girl)i get more girl action than i do guy!but i fuck girls but arnt atranted to them like i am guys? i am yet to screw a guy!whats up?

personally, i see that as bi, just because you've had sex with a female and are yet to have sex with males, doesn't mean you're gay, or in this case, lesbian. if you're attracted to males and have sex with females and still wish to have sex with both males and females, you're deff bi. don't worry about it anyway, you're 15, you have a few years to figure things out. i know i'm bi, but it's not like everyone knows. they have no need to know and things might change in the next few years. just go with the flow for now and figure it out later. i hope i helped!

What does that have to do with anything?

I agree with purpleWhat's that got to do with this?

why would you ask her that? i dont think those questions are relevant to what she is asking.

It still has nothing to do with what she postedAnd looks and weight have nothing do with anything

It might be really helpful to the other folks if you would explain your reasoning, rather than speaking in curt sentences.

The question just seemed a little rude. I guess she wont answer it anymore. Sorry for ruining it lol. :confused:

You don't have to answer anything, but people have a right to ask you to clarify things they don't understand, whether it's sarcasm or otherwise. I can't tell when certain people are sarcastic, so the easist way to deal with it is to assume they never are, or to just skip the post.I'm not sure if the OP is serious, but I've seen much weirder stuff than that taken seriously. And lots of "fat" and "ugly" women have had sex. Maybe not with you, but with others.

So, you're trying to figure out if she is a troll/lying?

What if she wont answer? I'm quite sure she will read all of this!

The problem is that, when you ask a question seemingly out of left field, that can be construed as rude and insulting, without explaining yourself, you scare people away, which is something folks like Ineligible are tirelessly working against.

That is not all true. The charismatic one usually get laid. Like Websexinfo But I think the girls, who i have met, are more into the physical beauty of them selves, simple obeservation. So i guess you are right.

This thread was wrecked from the start. The idea is to get the original poster to explain herself. Either she's retired for the night, or she's been scared away by the insulting bullshit, or she's not for real. Only she'll be able to answer that.

Now in this thread, you were rude to someone. In the thread you referenced, the issue was rudeness in yet another thread, and a meta-discussion about hypocrisy. That "discussion" served no useful purpose for that thread.

I am trying to see if we can get this wrecked thread back on track so that the OP will explain herself. Does that make sense, or would you like to continue the "Well, are you a skank?" line of questioning?

Dude, seriously, if you don't see those questions as rude, I don't know what to tell you.The point of the other people is to tell the poster, "Hang on, forget those rude questions, let's talk." If someone had answered the OP with that sentence, rather than replying to you, would you be happy?

>If she doesn't answer, it wasn't real or it wasn't very important to her.

No, it's because you were an asshole to her, and attacked her (without her doing jack shit to you) about her looks.... Ever think that since she's in high school, she's already very sensitive and insecure about her physical appearence? So you probably just really upset her... I would be pissed if I was her. Hell, I'm pissed anyways.

Anyways.....
Ever notice those girls who weren't the confident and popular ones? They weren't, by any means, ugly OR fat, they just had weird personality kinks. Or, have you noticed the girls who are chubs and are ugly, but they get guys ALL THE TIME? It matters, very much, how you portray yourself.

Like I've said in many other posts, the energy you project is extremely important. Always expect to be respected by all people; they will probably follow your lead. Make sure you respect yourself, because how can anyone respect someone who doesn't respect themselves? Remember, especially if you are a nerd, that there IS such a thing as TOO WEIRD... Guys get scared off by that. And I'm not saying, throw away all your Star Wars action figures and stop speaking Elvish, just tone it down and don't be all up in people's faces about it. And FINALLY... Remember that reputations stick for a long time, so people are not going to immediately accept that you've changed. You are going to have to convince them that you have... And it takes time. Good luck catching the guys!

In reply to: (And mind you, I have already said I did NOT take the post very seriously anyway) What's not to take seriously?It isn't over the top or unbelieveableAs a matter of fact I was just like her as a teen I didn't even like guy's until I was almost 19And around her age I had been with girlsSo please explain why you feel that this is isn't a serious topic?

You're going to now get bitched by the female population! Enjoy?If you didn't take it seriously why did you post it?

I'll assume that was an insult.If I'd thought about it and was able to put the words togeher, I would have said what ajmakoko said after "Anyways.....". But since she's already said it, I can get a cup of coffee instead.

If you had read what I posted you would see that I don't have the answer to her question

In some ways we are simular

I don't have the answer to her question

I was just stating that there is no reason to believe her posts to be untrue and made up