Well, I am struggling with something very difficult. Basically, I am most of the time unable to orgasm. I can masturbate, ejaculate, but there is no orgasm with it. I know this because of many things. For example, it is physically impossible to keep your eyes open while orgasming. I not only can keep my eyes open, but always do to make sure nothing gets somewhere I do not want it to.A few days ago, I was able to get a very weak orgasm. I could not open my eyes (even if I wanted to), and there was something else there, indescriptable, that has not been there in the past. Afterwards for the first time I felt release, and felt very tired; to the extent that I just put the tissue down and laid my head back and took a nap. This has not happened in the past.I might note my medical history. I have depression, as well as a current case of (spelling?) epididymitus, though I doubt that has anything at all to do with it since this has been going on for as long as I remember and the epididymitus is a recent thing.I really long for that feeling I had a few days ago. I have masturbated since, and - you guessed it - no orgasm. As soon as I was done, as normal, I felt not the slightest bit tired, not satisfied in the least, and quite sad.Do not know if this would affect it, but I used to when I was younger masturbate on my stomache alot. I heard this is unhealthy, but I did not know this at the time. I do recall having what seemed to be medium-grade orgasms when on my stomache.I will describe in detail what it normally feels like. When I am past the point of no return, I can feel something like almost a sensation of having to pee, then I have... a lower feeling, not really pleasurable, then I begin ejaculating and feel nothing whatsoever from that point on.The time a few days ago I was able to orgasm, although weakly, was the same feeling as above, except I was able to feel another underlying feeling just after the point of no return, one which felt reasonably good but as with the rest vanished as soon as I began ejaculating.In the past, on my stomache, I was able to feel much much more, almost a losing control sensation and then deep warmth with every ejaculatory spasm. That is no longer the case.If it makes a difference, I am 16.My doctor told me that ejaculation helps to cure the epididymitus in my case, and to give you a perspective its unpleaserable to the extent that I haven't even been doing it every day. It's just not worth the time. Every other male my age given the advice to masturbate all they could because of medical reasons would have done it 2+ times a day...Please help in any way you can. Even providing insights would help.
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Do not think this is normal...
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Ejaculation without orgasm is sometimes linked to prostate manipulation. I don't know enough about the medical aspects to advise you here, but I DO know that you CAN keep your eyes open while having an orgasm. Closing them just tends to help you focus more on what you are feeling. The thing that forces you to close your eyes is sneezing...
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For example, it is physically impossible to keep your eyes open while orgasming.That's a bunch of nonsense.
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Yeah, I agree. I never paid attention to it before, but I'm 99% sure I keep my eyes open while I orgasm. My orgasms last exactly 10 seconds, and I know I don't have my eyes closed for that long. Anyway, you mention when you get past the point of no return what happens. The point of no return IS the beginning of an orgasm. Once an orgasm starts, it can't be stopped, which is why it is called the point of no return. So if you're getting past a point of no return, you must be getting an orgasm. Or am I missing something?
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From Wikipedia's article on Anhedonia:Sexual AnhedoniaSexual anhedonia is known as 'ejaculatory anhedonia'. This rare condition means that the person will ejaculate with no accompanying sense of pleasure. This condition is most frequently found in males, but women can suffer from lack of pleasure when the body goes through the orgasm process as well.Sexual anhedonia may be caused by:Hyperprolactinaemia Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD), also called inhibited sexual desire Low levels of the hormone testosterone Spinal cord injury Use of SSRI antidepressants A urological examination and blood tests can determine the cause of a specific case of sexual anhedonia. If no physiological problems are found, one should seek treatment via psychotherapy with a certified sex therapist, or psychotherapist.Patients may be prescribed sustained-release bupropion to aid in treatment, because bupropion has been shown to increase sexual desire and intensity of orgasm.Are you on antidepressant medication?
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Ah. I apolagize, I guess I was wrong. Either way, since I've felt both I can tell you I normally do not orgasm.What I mean by that is that for me, after the point of no return, well... You have to mentally seperate ejaculation and orgasm. Normally the point of no return for me just means I will ejaculate nomatter what, not that I will orgasm, since most of the time I cannot seem to.No, I am on no medication except for an antibiotic for the epididymitus.