Did you lose your virginity the way you wanted to?

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Nope, it doesn't make it less applicable. You did good!

I laugh at what I have been through since, but I actually married the first guy I really kissed!! THAT is weird...though, now, I look at it like it was dating with paperwork.

Quote:I have a shitload of issues... that probably makes my experiences less applicable. i feel that way too. I’m so ashamed of how I lost mine I prefer people to think mine was taken at the party. 2..3 years back I posted about a security I was hiding from my parents. I think the post confused people more than helped me……but I did get some good advice in PM form some. After reading both sides (or views) I decided not to tell so only pete, paul and the few I talked to in PM know what I’m talking about. I wish I could say good things about losing it….but I can’t. what I can say tho is the best sex I have ever had is with the girl I’m with now. One of my exs lost her virginity with me and my girl now too. I wish both had done it differently. My Ex’s friends pushed her into it and I was too messed up to be fucking with a girl. It ripped us apart instead of making us closer. i do think it matters who you lose it to. some people don’t even get a choice to lose their virginity. Some have had theirs took from them. maybe it was done not violently or maybe it was... Some people are pressured into losing theirs when they should have waited till they were ready.

I think the only way to go about it is to think what you thought when you decided to do it. If you really thought it was the right idea at the time (even if you regret it here after) you really shouldn't feel bad about it. You did what you thought was right at the time.My bes friend, she gave herself to one of her exs. She has regretted it ever since, and I understand why. However, at the time it felt right, so you shouldn't regret doing it. Maybe just not saving it?

I lost to the guy i ended up marrying , i cant say i can imagine losing it with anyone else or want to for that matter!!I cant say the sex was great but just knowing it was with him made it very magical for both of us. I wouldnt change anything about it , no regrets

My first time was with my girlfriend of two (hopefully many more) years. I've seen that most people say their first time was a disappointment, but mine was extremely satisfying for the both of us. Of course, it always got better. Practice makes perfect Im very glad I lost it to her, though. She's the only one I've felt I would actually want to have that experience with. It was all the more special that she was a virgin, too.

Originally Posted By: LadySTI lost to the guy i ended up marrying , i cant say i can imagine losing it with anyone else or want to for that matter!!I cant say the sex was great but just knowing it was with him made it very magical for both of us. I wouldnt change anything about it, no regretsYou never told him this have you?

Well i don't think either of us were expecting fireworks however i wasn't exactly going to spell it out.

Quote:Practice makes perfect nope.. perfect Practice makes perfect

Lol

Any kind of practice is good !!! , and .... practice is always a lot of fun where i come from. hehehe

Drunk and not so horny, but she obviously was. I was too drunk to finish, my first time, so we went at it for about an hour. Ugly story, huh? She asked for it. Literally.

it wasn't as I had expected but it had to happen eventually. It could have happend that my g/f and I lost it together but we broke up for a month and someone else snuck in and stole my cherry.I was going to a house party with a buddy. He said that there was this hottie, Alicia, who was also going. Apperently everyone was after this chick. I met her, she was deffinately georgeous. We ended up looking for music in a bedroom in the basement... started kissing and hey-ho-there-ya-gowe never did it again but we did hang out a fair bit. About a month later, I got back together with my other g/f and she lost her's with me. In retrospect, it would have been nice if we did together but ya can't change the past.now I'm a born again virgin. I haven't had sex in 7 days

Originally Posted By: RadecklYour hymen doesn't grow back in a mere 7 days! I'm pretty sure his hymen will never grow back, due to the fact that it never existed. And I'm pretty sure hymens don't grow back on females either.I haven't lost mine yet, but I really only have two expectation, which is that, whoever I lose it to is someone who I love, and trust, and that I know they feel the same way about me. Although, I would prefer it somewhere romantic and such rather than the back of a car (no offense to anyone who finds that romantic :D), I don't think it would make much of a difference as long as I know it was the right person. I think the person is what makes all the difference.

Originally Posted By: Radeckl Originally Posted By: Elena Originally Posted By: RadecklYour hymen doesn't grow back in a mere 7 days! I'm pretty sure his hymen will never grow back, due to the fact that it never existed. And I'm pretty sure hymens don't grow back on females either.I haven't lost mine yet, but I really only have two expectation, which is that, whoever I lose it to is someone who I love, and trust, and that I know they feel the same way about me. Although, I would prefer it somewhere romantic and such rather than the back of a car (no offense to anyone who finds that romantic :D), I don't think it would make much of a difference as long as I know it was the right person. I think the person is what makes all the difference. Look at you with 12 posts knows more about men than men know about themselves! :p Hahaha, No, I'm afraid you're very wrong about that. I don't know very much about them at all, that's why I'm here. That, and the fact that my school lacks in sexual education.. a lot.

dammitI'm still looking for my hymenjeeze, where is that thing?!

haha it was a 13th birthday present from my brother[my bro got me a hot chick, i didnt fuck my bro lmao]

Originally Posted By: hotassmofohaha it was a 13th birthday present from my brother[my bro got me a hot chick, i didnt fuck my bro lmao wow. How did he wrap her?Did she pop out of the cake,or did he just use a lotta wrapping paper? :P

I lost it to a girlI really liked, and knew very well. The reason I chose her, though, wasn't because I cared a lot about her. I was familiar with her and figured I could learn some stuff about sex from her without worrying about embarrassing myself. She and I actually had a few first times, because my pathetic self kept going limp. When we finally got everything to work, it was over too quick and I didn't feel like I'd done too well (I didn't come, just lasted for about 10 minutes before going limp again.)

All in all I'd say the best way to go, for a guy at least, would be to find a girl who isn't a virgin. You should know her, and you should be attracted to her, but you shouldn't be in love with her. For girls, I would definitely say go for a guy your own age or younger. Older guys who would pop your cherry do not want what they tell you they want - usually.

Quote:You should know her, and you should be attracted to her, but you shouldn't be in love with her. In other words, lead her to think you like her and then use her for sex? That's nice.That is, of course, you mean a mutual one night stand type of thing with no strings attached.  Quote:Older guys who would pop your cherry do not want what they tell you they want - usually. What does a guy being older have anything to do with popping the cherry? And I didn't quite understand the rest. Older guys don't want to tell girls what they want? Did I read that right?

Never said you should be misleading. I was very forward with the girl I lost mine to. Told her I wasn't in love with her but I wanted to sleep with her. If she'd have expected anything more I wouldn't have gone through with it. I just think a guy's first time would be better if it were casual. So a one night stand would be an option, yes.I said that older men don't usually want what they tell you they want. In other words they say they want one thing and really want another. But, like I said, that's usually.