You really don't have anything nice to say about your brother do you? You just keep putting him down. Using a vibrator can be common among males and has nothing to do with being gay.
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My brother uses a vibrator?
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Yeah, I guess my brother has been portrayed as rather a horrible human being in this post. He is a good kid otherwise, mostly keeps all this stuff that I know about, a secret from outsiders. Probably wouldn't be too popular among his friends. The side of him I've been talking about in this post is the side I'm concerned about. I guess that makes him look like a bad person. Obviously I can't do a full personality sketch of him for you all...so sorry. I mean, I have had problems with him a lot in the past. We really don't get along very well because of his problems (mentally). He has interesting behaviors is all I'll say (non-sexual and sexual). Being in my family can be stressful and frustrating sometimes. About a year and a half ago, I broke away from our family religon. (I finally told them...I had been against the beliefs for quite a while). So..obviously there is some friction between my parents and I, and even the rest of my family. I won't mention the religon, cuz I don't want to start any unneccesary debates, but trust me, it's a weird one, and ...yeah. So anyway, I guess I'm using this forum as an outlet...sorry about all the complaining, I guess I should just get a journal. I just like being able to talk to people, and have them responding to my thoughts.
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In reply to: Using a vibrator can be common among males and has nothing to do with being gay. I wasn't inferring that a male using a vibrator means he's gay, I was linking the fact that he looks at gay porn, and using a vibrator in his rear as a possiblity of being gay.You also said that vibrators are common among males. The other person said it isn't. Sooo...which is it? Explain please
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In reply to:
You also said that vibrators are common among males. The other person said it isn't. Sooo...which is it? Explain please
i said its much more common for guys to try anal stimulation with their fingers rather than to go buy and use a vibrator
amanda said "Using a vibrator can be common among males"
i think the "can" is the keyword
...that leaves much up to the imagination on how common it is...i know a few guys that have tried their fingers up there (including me.. only cause of what the others said!! bah it was lame too.. no stimulation for me!) but no guy that im friends with guy has ever said they've tried a vibrator..
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so some are Assuming that he stuck it up his ass. :open_mouth: No one ever thought that maybe he just liked to use it on his head. :blush:
So y are u snooping in ur bros room anyway?? :confused: Does he snoop in urs and run around posting how u have colored panties and shit. Lol :grin: let the guy jack off in peace sheeze :scream_cat: -
I really doubt the type of vibrator you guys have can be stuck up his rear...
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ok, i was just asking which was right. Amanda said the "can be" common, and Cool said that vibrators, no, but fingers are. So, that's what i was asking.
Um, as for snooping in his room, I don't know if you read my earlier posts, cuz it has it in there. I first went in there looking for our cats. That's when i saw the massager and took it. He came and "snooped" in my room looking for it and he took it (I wasn't sure if he was the one who took it, but was assuming). So, yes, I went back in his room looking for it, to see if he was the one who took it. I wasn't sure it was him, I thought maybe my mom took it. People are always comin in my room, so people "snoop" in mine. When I couldn't find it anywhere else in the house, I went back in his room. I was standing there thinking about where it could be, when i saw the gray cord. It was in the far corner of his bed, under pillows and a blanket. So, I found it...but I also found a rather nasty pillow.
As for posting things on here...what is wrong about that? You all do not know me or my brother, so what is the harm? It's not like I'm really embarrassing him! This site is called "afraid to ask" so I'm asking things, that I wouldn't have asked anyone else. What is with that?
I mentioned up there, the encounter of my brother asking where the massager was. I told him to use his hand. I have no problem with letting him masterbate in private...just don't use the family's massager. That's what I'm saying. He can masterbate all he wants as long as it's not involving anyone else. Using the massager, effects anyone else who uses it, not knowing that he shoves this thing on his ass. His masterbating in front of my 7 year old sister, or in front of anyone unwilling to watch, is not right. It was just a little freaky realizing what he was doing with it. It's just another thing to add to his list.
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i'm really not in the mood for this... i was just saying he could be messing around with his dick with it. it don't always have to go up the ass. but what ever i don't care. he can use a curling iron for all i care.
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I hear what you're saying, and he does sound a little twisted like masturbating in front of his little sister and stuff. But putting all that aside, it comes down to the massager. I never heard of a "family massager" before. Usually massagers are bought and used by one person, or two at most (husband and wife). I think he needs to get his own massager, and maybe you should have your own too. Buy him a massager for his birthday or christmas present. He'll love it, and you can get a laugh out of it, and he won't need to use the "family" massager for masturbation anymore, as he'll have his own.
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G R O S S!!!the fact that you took it back is equally disgusting if not more disgusting than what he is doing with it. no matter what the object is, if that were my brother i would let him keep it. i wouldnt want anything back from him if i even had the slightest feeling that he used it sexually. In reply to:Don't use a back massager that the family uses so you can get off. but thats what YOU are doing too... right??? you definitely need your own vibe. and throw that filthy thing away girl! who knows who else in your house uses it!and it sounds like you are wasting an awful lot of energy on him. quit even bothering complaining about him. you know he is gross, he probably wont change, and if you are so disgusted with him you need to ignore him all together. in fact, if i were you i would try to get out of your house and never look back! when you are old enough to move out go get a job and get the hell out of there! unless you like the chaos!?!