Ok.My mom wants to buy me a box of condoms for whatever reason..and, like, how do you have sex?and don't say 'look at porn..'I'm kinda afraid of doing something they won't enjoy..so, can someone just tell me the basics to sex -- nothing exotic.. just clean cut sex.and, how long does it take cum?
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Sex....
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Well, I know a lot of sexually active teens, so I think she's being precautious especially with all the media hype over kids these days.
In any case, if you get with a virgin, you won't be living up to any expectations they might have. Whereas if you ride the village bicycle, they;ll have more experience and therefore say "YOu were worse than _____" I'm rambling, but in any case, if you're with a virgin, they will not be disappointed with you (though they may be disappointed with sex).
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right.....so ur point is.... screw virgins?
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lol.. Eh. There is a pressure though...all my guy friends, are older...and they are not virgins..so, i mean, the pressure is there...and, I can't make the first move.I hate my body, I hate my looks.I'm so insecure it's not even funny.
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If she's willing to have sex with you , you can't look very bad! And, I really meant if she's a virgin it doesn't matter.
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Many of your friends who say they are not virgins are probably lying.
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my feelings r, if u dont know how to have sex, u probably shouldnt b doing itand yea, atleast sum of ur mates r lying about haveing had sex. guys seem to do that....im sure u have nothing to b insecure about but if the only reason u wanna have sex is cuz ur friends have, its really not the right thingi dont think its just girls who deserve there 1st time to be "special".
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the thing is, i know my friends aren't virgins...
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And you can be sure of that how????
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ok, so say u know 4 sure theyre not virgins because their gfs wrote and signed a form that declared that they had had sex with ur friend ( cuz u cant really b absolutly SURE can u) then SO WHAT? u dont have 2 do it just cuz they are. fuck them, b original for once. i no its hard to go agaisnt what every1 else SEEMS to be doing but why the hell not?u really shouldnt b worried bout it. theres no hurry. lots of guy dont loose their virginity till theyre alot older then you are so relax. go at you and ur partners pace not ur mates. dont let them pressure u, cuz if theyre doing it on purpose theyre being assholes.breath in, breath out. relax. "it wont happen over night, but it will happen" to quote, rachel hunter i think it was...anywho. it just 1 of those things that seems like abig deal at the time
