its so easy to sit there and say, "hey don't worry about size" when u're sitting on a 7.5 inch penis! think about the guys who are under 5 inches, and fully grown. Size for the partner is not the whole pie. Some guys might want to be bigger for their own well being. Think of those who had to go through high school and college in gang showers and got tormented, by guys that looked, and how that made the recipient of the torture feel. Guys that get tormented are the ones who end up snapping and goin postal on the people around them. So don't sit there and lecture small guys about being small and how it's not that important when u're sitting on something significantly larger. That'd be like Bill Gates walking up to a homeless person and spouting, "don't feel bad, money isn't everything" and then he gets on his 2,000 dollar, segway and rides the thirty feet over to one of his fancy cars then goes back to his 100 million home and parks his car in one of his 40 garages. And girls! don't lecture guys on size! You know for a fact it matters a hell of a lot! wanna test? Go to a hooters and find a girl with under an B cup bra size.
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LISTEN UP GUYS! SIZE DOESN'T MATTER!!!!!
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I hear your pain, blakmnoncmps. I think there's something hard-wired into males to compare and compete in this area. Sometimes it's suppressed, and those guys are lucky. I think the argument about what pleases a woman is often not the real crux of the issue - it's more a matter of what constitutes masculinity. And although we know in our intelligent minds that penis size is not important, deep down there's a different voice.
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well, i can't speak to the mean things that guys say to other guys, i'm sure they do. if i were a guy i would be much more concerned about what my girlfriend thought than a bunch of neanderthals in the shower. And girls! don't lecture guys on size! You know for a fact it matters a hell of a lot! wanna test? Go to a hooters and find a girl with under an B cup bra size. that makes no sense whatsoever! i'm telling you, from years of experience, as well as talking to my girlfriends, that size DOESN'T matter. especially LENGTH. physiology proves that out. (re-read my original post!) and to compare boobs to penises??? hooters???? well, i guess some guys want big boobs. hooters was founded on big boobs. i'm sure i couldn't get a job at hooters. (not that i want to!) that has nothing to do with my POINT, which is that the one thing so many men are hung up on and freaked out about, does not MATTER to the majority of women. period. i've had them big, average and small. if the guy doesn't know how to please a woman, what really makes her come, you can have the biggest dick on the planet and still be considered lousy in bed. another thing - girls respond differently than guys. guys are very visual. guess that's why they want those big titties and airbrushed barbie doll pussies. everywhere they look....MTV, cologne ads, Victoria's Secret catalogues, their favorite whack mag...there are impossible girls in there. guys are set up in a way - presented with these unreal girls so that's what they think they want. pfffft!girls don't go to penis bars and ogle all the big dicks. they don't read dick of the month magazine. most girls do not meet a guy and think "i wonder how big his dick is". i don't know any girl that dumped a guy because he was "too small". and if size DOES matter to the girl you're with, maybe it's time to move on. if a guy i dated didn't like my b cups, the hell with him. plenty out there who'd love to latch on
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Ineligible - excellent point. women feel similar pressure to have "perfect" bodies, with big boobs, zero body fat, and a tiny tight pussy. in fact there is much more pressure on women than men, don't you think?to anyone: my posts are not to deny your feelings, just to maybe help a little from a woman's point of view. i love ALL your winkies!!!
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i think that the reason that most guys worry about size is beacuse they compare to other guys, and want to be bigger and longer, so they could be the alpha dog. I don't think it is so much the woman, but yet the other men.
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Great post! I think one of the keys to pleasuring your female partner is communication - as stated by you. Ask! If you're planning a lifelong relationship with someone asking them what they like is nothing in the big scheme of things.My partner and I actually used that 'code' thing you mentioned, without even hearing about it elsewhere. We just thought it was too 'porno-like' to scream "Yes" or "More" or whatever. We'd both use the guidance of hands, sounds, holds etc and soon enough could read each other like a books.That was truly a great post, although I've never been worried about my dick it was a good bit of information, and I believe no matter what you know there's always something new that can help you. Hopefully it'll help put an end to the "Am I big enough" threads. Stop thinking about your dicks guys and start thinking about having a good time together!
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Whatabout if you have an uncut dick
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what about it?
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This should be a sticky thread. 5 stars.
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if you have an uncut dick... you have an uncut dick. I swear it's true! If you don't believe me, look it up.