I cant kiss

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frankly i have a lot of shit bothering me right now, but this one is getting to me most. Ok basically, this past week ive been going to a few parties and one club, and i made out with about 6 girls. yesterday i was making out with one girl in front of some of my friends, and one guy kept teasing me, calling me 'washing machine'. The thing was, the girl was using a lot of tounge, but i dont know if i was doing it wrong, or her. I dont know how to kiss properly, like in the movies when the guy and girls lips press against eachother softly and you cant even see their tounges, but when im kissing its so hard to think and it all happens so fast. how can i get better?

-max

Everyone kisses differently. Everyone has a little bit of different style of kissing.
In my opinion, too much slobber is gross. I would keep wiping off my mouth/face whenever that happens, it has been a while since that has happend.
If you made out with 6 girls lately, then you are doing something right, right. :smile:

I agree I don't like too much tongue either, in fact it tends to annoy me quite a bit when my partner insists on probing around in my mouth for Quite Damn Long(TM).

Hmm well -- I guess it might be a better idea to enjoy each other in more private circumstances But either way, what really matters is whether you and her enjoy the kiss! Fuck the world, who cares what they think!

Ever think that guy giving ya shit was just pissy because it was you kissing her instead of him?

nah, hes not like that, plus he was getting with someone else...all i really wanna do is improve my kissing technique. i guess i need a girlfriend, someone sweet who would teach me how to kiss really well. but i dont know...thats a whole nutha story

Don't neglect to recognise the positives, Africa.Quote:this past week ive been going to a few parties and one club, and i made out with about 6 girlsI think that really is excellent news!

yeah, but i feel so low about myself. i have times when i feel confident, and then times when i feel anxious about approaching girls. i dont know, i thought when this kind of thing started happening for me id feel genuinely confident, but i dont.

Look at it this way. I've kissed one girl in my entire life hehe, you're doing pretty damn well for yourself. You know you can get a girl, because you know you have got girls before, just don't worry too much about the outcome, when you don't give a damn is when you usually get some.

I've never had a long truly passionate kiss so I'm nervous for when it'll happen too... ill probably be a mess but whatever.

I went ahead and looked for you.http://www.theromantic.com/kissing/frenchkiss.htm

yeah but i have trouble getting a girl unless im drunk or she is.

[ some of my friends, and one guy kept teasing me, calling me 'washing machine']

If "some of your friend" are girls, then I guess they 're right.
I can't tell you how to kiss properly, you have to find it out yourself. Maybe you get too excited and use your tongue very much. That can be fixed. Just take it easy (and dude, 6 girls? is your true name "Casanova" or what?).

okay first you said you couldn't kiss and now your changing the topic.