ok well im 16 and i have a friend shes 12 and i interduce her to my friend jake hes 16 also well i wanted to get them two hooked up and they did well one the first night they were at my house and he sayd he wanted some privcey with her so i thought ok yea so they went in the guest room and they started talking well two mins later she came out and sayd he wanted to finger her but she sayd she was scared bc she was still a virgen and she really didnt know wat would happen so he came out andt they just hung out some more well some more ppl came over and hun out and he wanted to try again so this time i told her shell be fine so they were in there for bout 10 mins and she told me he started dry humping her and they watched movie rest of the nigght and fiddle every now and then but next day he broke up wit her and now she thinks she done the wrong thing to let him finger her and stuff so now im blaming me and idk wat to do PLS HELP!!!!!!!!
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Plss help!!!
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YIKES! ...Personally, I think letting your friend be alone with this guy who is 4 years older than her was a big no-no in the beginning. But anyways, She shouldn't blame you. And they not being together is probably the smarter thing to happen. Tell your friend she needs to calm down...and try not to hook her up anymore...
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. That's a period. It comes at the end of a sentence. Using them makes your posts much easier to understand.
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sorry... i dont really use them in forums... but yea why u even post that
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Welcome to A2A, juggalotus, but I think you did do very wrong, introducing a preteen to a 16 year old.However there's no way to turn time back, so all you can do now is support her and make sure you don't make that bad mistake again.
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thxs but the thing is she wanted to get hooked up wit him i tried to stop her but it was basicly her choice and i love her like a sister but yea and like she says alot of ppl are calling her a slut and stuff at school and yea
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Hey chief, punctuation is a great thing. Very odd tryin to read your posts. Anyways. Seeing as shes 12, Im pretty sure you should have helped her in NOT trying to get "hooked up" with anyone. A bit young aint she? At this point just talk to her and help her out. And the dude seems a bit like a jerk to me, taking advantage of someone so young. So in any kind of confrontations, I thinkn it best to take her side. Just my oppinion.
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I also think it was wrong, worst maybe for the guy, he is 16 and your friend at 12 is way too young ! Shit, she is way too young PERIOD. She should be spending time with girls her own age for starters. But, if she is a good friend of yours, you should begin by giving her good examples, so introducing her to a 16 year old boy is a no-no ! I am sure you both learned from that experience.
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I posted the request for punctuation because your posts are impossible to read. Communication is not just about what comes out of your mouth (or from your fingers in this case) but also in helping the listener (or writer) to understand the point you are attempting to make.
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I think they wanted to inform you about the use of English grammar. Most of the time, text type is difficult to read and understand. Most people are old enough to write everything out. If you cant, then please drive thru!
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Sorry i was half way asleep when i typed it ive been working two jobs and worring about her so yea sorry ppl.
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Much better. Forgiven.
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I don't see why you guys keep hassiling her over friggin grammar. C'mon people! It's an online bulletin board, not 9th grade English class!AND I agree with ineligable...all you can do know is support her, and try to hook her up with guys her age. MAYBE 13...don't push her into a situation she shouldn't feel comfortable in.
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I'm not here to argue. I think I communicated my point quite well.
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Well, it makes it hard to read because when you have no punctuation, you don't know where to pause and to seperate thoughts.It's not that fucking hard to type like you've learned something in school.
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Quote:alot of ppl are calling her a slut and stuff at school and yea pardon my language but i think as her friend and as the older of the two of u...you need to walk right up to them and tell them to fuck off and shut the hell up. i mean seriously...ur 16...her peers are prolly like 12-13... if u as a 16 yr old went up to them and told them to shut their damn faces then that may actually help her situation...my question is, how did these people who are saying these things to her find out about this incident???.....if ur 16yr old qye friend who has a thing for pre-teens was the information leaker i would chew his ass if i was u....seriously i have friends that are younger than me by a few years...and i would litterally kick the dudes ass...even if he was like my bestfriend....if he treated one of my friends like that...especially if she was so young
