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ok so after my dilema of my unprotected sex i urged my friends not to do the same stupid mistake. lol was i wrong. they have been doing it even before me. i asked them for advice and they just told me not to stress it. i even told them i had sex with my gf after she took the pill like 4 times and they said still not to worry about it because if you dont ejaculate its fine. i even told them how precum may contain sperm but they said if you pee once it clears it all out. i mean im trying to argue and encourage these guys to use some sort of BC but it feels like im just overreacting. but there is my best friend jared that listens because he juts got into a relation and had unprotected sex but was embrassed to say anything. im not educated enough to give him any advice but ill give u guys his scenario"Well we used a emergency after pill after we had unprotected sex but like a week later we thought it was ok and had sex again 4 times unprotected. I came once but not her. I pulled out and masterbated for about 2 mintues and came in my hand. Then I wiped my penis with a towel, peed, and in 10 mintues we had sex again, twice. Should we get another pill or are we ok." I told him what you guys told me but he seems a lil worse then me. what should i say

The chance of getting pregnant from precum is very low, but if sex with withdrawal as the only contraception is used regularly, the chances start mounting up. It's hard to put any figure on the danger of sperm in precum, because withdrawal often fails for another reason - guys get too blasé and end up pulling out too late.The emergency pill should not be used as a regular form of contraception - it's quite rough, having so much hormone.

With condoms as inexpensive and easy to get, why take the chance with unprotected sex? Are your friends big gamblers?

lol i guess you could say that. i try telling them to use it but they insist on not because it doesnt "feel as good". oh well, should i say anything to randy?

Quote:but they insist on not because it doesnt "feel as good". oh well, should i say anything to randy? Neither does changing diapers.

LOL

should i tell randy to take another after pill even though his gf took one before?

Quote:should i tell randy to take another after pill even though his gf took one before? It does no good for a guy to take the pill. They don't have a male contraceptive in pill form yet. Use a condom.

no i meant his GF... hes freaking out because he thought after he took the pill they could have sex without a condom but after three sessions of no condom he figureed thats not how it works so should she take antoher pill?

What the...? o_OWhy is your male friend taking contraceptive pills? I have no idea how he would get such an idea but they only work for women. Your friend obviously needs to do his homework on how birth control works and that unprotected sex is a very serious issue.His girlfriend needs to take the emergency contraceptive pill to prevent her from being pregnant (although if it's been more than 3 days, it's no good). But tell your friend that the EC pill is NOT a method of birth control. His girlfriend is getting a massive dose of hormones. Tell him to use a damn condom!

she took it before but they thought it was a bc method so they kept having sex and wondering if they should take it again

Again, the EC Pill is NOT a birth control method, so be sure to pass down that fact to them. They can take another one but, like I said, if it's been more than 3 days, then it's no use.

are you sure the EC pill taken twice wont jack up his gf's hormone balance or what not thats what he scared of and freaking out.

Well, how many days has it been since they last had sex and how many days before that did she take the EC Pill?

well its been i think a week since they took the first one or a week n half? not quite sure but they have had sex i think two to four days ago

If it's been more than 3 days since they last had sex, the pill or anything won't do anything now. It's up to chance now.

hmm what would you say his chances are if she did take one a week ago and they had unprotected sex but he claims he did not ejaculuate

That is hard to say, since there's a chance that his pre-cum may have had sperm in it. If he says he didn't ejaculate, I'd say slim, but the chance is still there.Please tell him if he doesn't want to freak out everytime he has sex, to use a condom. It's really that simple.ADDED:"Well we used a emergency after pill after we had unprotected sex but like a week later we thought it was ok and had sex again 4 times unprotected. I came once but not her. I pulled out and masterbated for about 2 mintues and came in my hand. Then I wiped my penis with a towel, peed, and in 10 mintues we had sex again, twice. Should we get another pill or are we ok."D'oh! My apologies for not reading that more clearly. From what he said, his chances are very slim. But I still hope he learns from this! He and his girlfriend can't keep pressing their luck because eventually their luck will run out.

lol virtual star i literally beat his ass for it. i mean i made the same mistake but i want to make sure no one goes through that mistake again you know? he comes to my house and sees me type all this shit out hahaa. thanks for yall support i guess we just wait n see? gasp he will probably get her to take another pill btw..

Lol. Well, sorry I can't give your friend any better news but this is the reality of sex. It's not all fun and games. But at least you learned and that's great. Well, it isn't up to him. It's up to her if she wants to take the pill. Like I said, if it's been more than 3 days, it's useless. If they want to spend money like that, then that's up to them. It would be much easier spending money on condoms than on the EC pills.