Turn off for some girls?

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Originally Posted By: A Vand when i say that most 17 and 18 year olds are ready, i mean physically, not mentally. some won't be ready, others will. maybe not mentally, but physically there body is ready. i'm not saying that they'd ALL be ready, but most....(sorry if that came off as rude to you. it wasn't meant to.)Yup, much that's much clearer. I misunderstood. knocks head But you rude? Nah, never crossed my mind.

When that was widely practiced, the life expectancy was only about 30 to 40 years old.if you had kids later on than the mid to late teens, youd leave them orphaned as youd yourself more than likely be dead before they became adults.The only place (tha I know of ) that that shit is still pushed today is right here in Utah.Colorado city a copuple hours south of me.Jeffs is in prison, but his shit still stinks, and his shit still rules the mormon (not claimed by the current momrons but an offshoot of htem called FLDS f being fundamentalists) 14 year old girls marry and have childrens with men 2 and 3 times thier age, often uncles or cousins and its all set up by the town leaders. Youung men are compatitiion for them, they are often booted out and found wandering the desert near st george while the young girls are married off and used and abused and made good lttle mommies.Want to look into the shit? google FLDS and Warren Jeffs and Colorado City. enjoy the readings.

Originally Posted By: derek8148I know it shouldn't be happening at my age, but the way this day and age is, it's probably more than likely. How about being one of those rare stand-up kids who have the balls to swim upstream and do what's right, not a bunch of other kids who could give a rip about you are doing.You're better than that, right?

Agreed (You know, we can debate on a lot of things, but agree on most)

it seems across the nation tons of kids my age are fucking each other like ALL the time, but honestly, around here, its not a big deal. like at our school, if a girl has sex, and people find out, shes a slut. i was actually kinda surpised. i mean for upperclassmen its kinda different, but for us i definitely thought more people would be fucking each other.

Originally Posted By: aFIREinside32

but honestly, around here, its not a big deal. like at our school, if a girl has sex, and people find out, shes a slut.
Can you please explain to me how that's not a big deal? I'm having a hard time believing that this girl, being called a slut by her peers, think that this is "not a big deal".

When he said "not a big deal", I kind of took that to mean it didn't seem to be happening as much as you would think. Look at it again in the context of the rest of his post.

meh. not to be mean. However, your post screams much about your character or lack there of.Hmm.. kinda ironic but, I think one of the biggest reasons I'm a virgin right now is because of people like you my friend.See what you probably don't realise is that you can catch disease from blow jobs just like you can from vaginal intercourse. With the teen sex going on these days it really bothers me and has me pretty paranoid to persue a relationship with anyone besides someone who is a virgin.Now. my post is going to fork some because, I'm curious as to why you really posted.Odds are you are going to do what you are going to do with or without our consent. However, I am curious if that is why you posted. Are you looking for consent?Or are you really legit seeking advice? If you are seriously seeking advice I applaud you greatly. I encourage abstinence in every meaning of the word. If your seeking concent well I still hope for the best for you. erm. As to sex... here is sorta my rule of thumb. If you would be too ashamed to admit it to your mom. don't do it.No one wnats to talk about sex with their parents thats strange in ever sense of the definition. However, if your mom asked you "are you having sex" and you think there is any chance you wouldn't tell the truth.. don't do it.there are alot of sayings and quotes about it. "what goes on in the dark eventually comes to light" or "never do anything you wouldn't do with people watching" or "the real test of a man is what would he do if no one would ever know he did it". They are pretty much slightly different variations of the same saying. they all have different authors which I can't remember. However, they all make a the same valid point.As to teenage pregnancy. It is not right under any circumstances to force someone to have sex against there will.. especially children. I personally don't endorse pre arranged marriages. HOWEVER, I will say that i do not hold anything against them. I think in reality they aren't that different from regular marriages. Some work. Some don't. Some are abusive, some are loving.If the people involved in the prearranged marriage start off hating eachtoher or not. If they can eventually learn to work together and love someone they had no control over picking then I think that is truely spectacular and probably a deep connection. Man nor woman can really back out. So if they truely learn to co exsist and love eachother I think thats awesome. If they can't. then well.. its not really any different from a relationship where two people think they are in love.. get married and end up hating eachother. There is no universal right or wrong to it.

Hmm, I understand what you mean. Quote:if a girl has sex, and people find out, shes a slutI guess this is what I'm more worked up about. What I didn't understand is why when a young girl has sex, everyone has to call her a slut? I mean, what business is it of anyone? And who knows if that's true or not.

Quote:never do anything you wouldn't do with people watchingThat rule seems a bit over-strong - if followed, the human race would dwindle quickly to the children of exhibitionists.