The Question That Almost Every Guy Asks......

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Exactly how far would YOU go before you thought that you were gay? (for all the guys that have this question)By that I mean is showing you penis to another guy considered gay to you? Or how about having a circle jerk?How far do you think is gay?-Koolkid

I would say that the post by tman is too far for me.koolkid

Great point, but, I would consider the point I would thing gy would be when you decide that you yourself are gay, when you admit it not only to others, but to yourself. Until then, pysical contact with any other guy(s) your age is mostly natural.

I would consider myself gay if I were having a true, serious, emotional relationship with another man. Fooling around just due to horniness like tman did is not being gay as far as I'm concerned.

Yeah but that is just me. Well let me ask you this, would any of you guys want to hump another guy and cum with him?

Being gay is so much more than an act. Sex is just that, sex. So I'd have to desire to be in loving committed relationship with someone of the same gender in order to consider myself gay. Simply doing some gay things doesn't make one gay, it may signal some bi-sexual tendencies, but that isn't gay either. Not quite sure what you mean by hump, but as I've said here....when I was a teen I masturbated regulalry with two friends over a period of two years or so. Mutual masturbation of each other, masturbation together and even some oral sex. It was no big deal, we grew out of it and none of us are gay.

i always wondered wats a CIRCLE JERK?

A circle jerk is a number of guys masturbating together, traditionally in a circle. Someone has suggested it means each guy is masturbating the guy to his right, but I think it's more often used of guys doing it to themselves, and just sharing the experience (and sometimes competing in speed or distance).

Yeah but that is just me. Well let me ask you this, would any of you guys want to hump another guy and cum with him?Well, no, but if I did, I wouldn't just be like, "OK, I'm definitely gay."

I agree with a lot of the posts here. Fooling around and experimenting with guys a few times doesn't make you gay in itself. I think you need to have a strong emotional AND sexual attraction to guys to be considered gay. Like being sensual and picturing yourself in love with a guy would definitely make you gay. I would also say that if you walk around and see other guys that you find attractive, and think to yourself what you would like to do with that guy sexually, and would like to be with him, then that definitely makes you gay. If you want to or enjoy kissing another guy, you're definitely gay. Personally, I think having anal sex with another guy, and liking it and wanting to do it again, makes you gay. Although if you just tried it once or twice and determined you didn't like it and don't want to do it again, then i wouldn't consider you gay, although you did participate in a very gay act. Showing your penis to another guy, and circle jerks doesn't make you gay, IMO. That's just messing around and having fun with your hormones.

i think that some people think that if you show your penis to some other guy they think that you are gay but i disagree circle jerks are fine but others may disagree with me i think is just something different it is kind of fun though espically when you got the biggest penis