Youngest/Oldest

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What was the age of the youngest or oldest person that you've ever dated, and how old were you at the time?

Basically I'm looking for the biggest age gap you've had in a relationship, but taking your own age at the time into consideration. Ya know, like a 21 year old and a 14 year old being a lot more controversial than a 45 year old and a 30 year old.

My boyfriend is 40. We started when I was 18; he was 35. I'm 23 now.

Now thats actually a really good example of what I was saying. When you started going out I'm sure there must have ben loads of people at you about it, but just 5 years later it just doesn't seem nearly as bad.

When I was 19 I went out with a 39 year old for about 3 or 4 months. Before that, when I was 18, I went out with a married 34 year old... that was a nightmare. When I was 17 I went out with a very hot 35 year old.

Oh, that brings up another question. Do you think that its better or worse when the younger party is a guy or a girl?

My biggest gap is she was a year older then me. Lame I know >.>

When my ex and I started dating I was 18 (2 weeks after my 18th birthday) and he was 28. We had a great relationship (and still do) we were together for 6 years.

Adam is actually the youngest I have ever dated, he's 3 years younger than I am. I usually go for guys older than I am.

Don't really know. I had no problem going out with older women, as matter of fact, it was a kinda refreshing change from the average mentality of the typical teenage girl. I think it has more to do with the level of maturity of both people in the relationship.

I could see the pitfalls of the older member of the relationship having the ability to easily manipulate the younger. Since at that age girls seem to be more emotional invested in a relationships it might be more precarious for them. But by and large there probably isn't that much difference.

I was with a 42 year old belly dancer when I was 21. More recently I've been with women ten years older than me exactly. All in increadibly good shape for their age, in fact, beeter shape than me! =(

me and shannon are the same age, she's 11 days older tho. lol

I was 15 when i started dating laces. she is younger by a couple months...

Lindsey was older, i was 17 and she was 18. i know u didn't ask but i thought i'd add that alot of people thought i was her little brother. lol i looked more like 15 than 17 and she was HOT. i was a little short skinny runt of a shit then. lol

Wow.. Your bf does NOT look that old! Hes really good looking!


My boyfriend is turning 23 this month and i turn 20 in october

Ive never had more than a 3-4 year age gap.. but ive also never dated anyone my own age.. theyve always been 3 or 4 years older than me.. when I was 15 I dated a 19 year old

I was 27 and he was in his 60's. smaks self on head WHAT THE HELL WAS I THINKING!?!?!

Actually, I know what I was thinking, my house had just burned down, and he offered security. Pretty sad. Still friends though. Just a bit uncomfortable at times.

On THAT note, I don't know if it matters who is the older, and who is the younger. I feel like I committed elder abuse or some sick thing actually!!!! So, on that note, the older one doesn't necessarily have the power in a relationship...

OK, I don't want to talk about that anymore, I was pretty fucked up then......

I guess the biggest gap would be my current relationship. I was 20 when I met him and he was 24, soon to be 25. Right now, I'm 21 and he just turned 26 yesterday. Not a giant gap, but it works for me. We don't act our age anyway, lol.

The biggest gap for me was when I was 19...he was 29.

The guy I am currently with, we started dating when he turned 20 and I turned 22. And I have to say, when I get rid of him I will never, ever, ever date a guy younger than me. Probably not anyone younger than 35 actually.

Oh, how did that work out? I'm asking cause I've been spending the past few days hanging out with a girl whose 15. I'm 19 (20 in October) and even tho she is really attractive and looks and acts older than she is, I feel like such a dirty, perverted bastard just thinking about getting with her.

LOL

I dated the guys at least 10yrs older than me for a long time, but the one I found is only 3 months older than me. It just took FOREVER to find him.

I dated a guy 2 years younger, way lame. And that is the youngest I ever went, and heck, I was 29 and he was 27, you would have thought he was starting to mature....

Jail bait, while often tempting, is never advisable.

Maybe in a few years you could build an actual relationship with her but right now I bet there would be to big a difference in what each of you would expect form a relationship and your respective maturity levels.

So it's time to grow-up and mature a little bobo. LoL j/k

In all seriousness, I just don't see that kind of age gap working for very long but, hell, I may be wrong, it won't be the first time.

I don't actually have any intention of asking her out, as I said before, I feel perverted just thinking about it! Altho that hasn't really stopped me from thinking about it...

hugs

By your own admittance, if you think about it THROUGHLY you will find, that you have had a whole relationship with her, and won't even have to go there.

Well actually if I think about it thoroughly with my head, I find it useless to even consider anything cause even if I did try something, I'd be turned down straight away.

Ok, but I was thinking you would lose the urge. You know, go through the whole relationship in your head, to the point of her death of old age and well, you would have had it..lol

THEN, when you meet someone that you DO do that with, you can call yourself a widower.