Not sure what to do about my husband?

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Yes, i am so ecstatic i wish my Husband was here but he still isn't home yet , i might go to bed soon and just tell him tomorrow although i can't help wishing he was here right now.

Originally Posted By: GrownPastMyYearsi am finishing school first! a ged is equivalent to a high school diploma... jesus... im not bringing a child into this world until i can properly take care of it... You can't take care of a child by yourself at 16. That's just completely asinine, and Im saying that as someone your age. Im sorry to say this, but since none of what anyone has had to say here has affected you, good luck ruining your life and the lives of two other innocents On the topic of OP, congratulations!! It only took you three weeks? You dont know how lucky you are (or maybe you do), many couples try for months or years. Im glad everything is going well for you!

Congratulations!

One: Congratulations. It's always good when planned parenting works out. Second. 27/24 is too young?Do they think you want to put a kid through college during retirement? That's 100% idiocracy. ANY age is too young for kids. It's a whole different experience that nothing can prepare you for. I would have thought all parents knew that... Seems to me, if you have jobs, education, a good relationship, and really want a kid, and on top of that marriage and a long time together, you can't really get more prepared than that. That's just me though.My father was 40 when I was born. I wasn't an accident, i was just a few years later than planned

Well i had my first hospital appointment today and my husband again had a meeting so i took my girlfriend with me. What i found tough about it was that i asked my Husband last night to come with me to the hospital and i told him it was really important so i confirmed the appointment this morning but he called me around 2 hours before and said that he couldn't get away and that he would be home late again.The conclusion from this is that i around 6 weeks pregant which was a bit of a shock. My husband called me up after my appointment I think he sensed i was pretty upset over it all, my best lassie however was soo excited which was nice because so far i have been having to not show my excitement so that was great although i really wish my Husband would have been with me. My husband is a lawyer and i have my own wedding planning business. So i am a bit of a planning freak with lists and pda and diary.I just hope my husband isn't home too late tonight , i really want to tell him but so far just hasnt been a good time and i don't really want to do it over the phone. He has been busy with a case and i have been busy with 5 weddings being held in the coming months. Crazy Life !!!

I don't disbelieve you, but I do ask:Is there ever a bad time to say, "You're gonna be a daddy!"?(I mean in this situation. Other than this, I can think of lots of bad times to say that..)

Yes there is , i spoke to him for about 5 minutes last night when he came in (about having lunch and going to the hospital today) and then he left before i woke up this morning, i was hoping we could eat lunch together and then go to the hospital together so i could tell him over lunch, so far the only contact that we could have had was over the phone so i am hoping hemakes it home within the next hour so we can spend some time together.

I apologize, I was under the impression that you had some time last evening :smile: My mistake.

It's ok, well we had 5 more minutes when he came to bed but that was not until around 1 30 am so then all he really wanted to do was sleep since he gets up at 5 30 for work so it is smetimes hard to get time together just due to the hours we both work, i have a wedding on both thursday and friday so i have saturday off which should give us some alone time, assuming he doesnt work since he has thursday and friday off.