when me and my girlfriend ever get sexually active in the future, i want her to be shaved. having hair around and/or on the vagina doesnt suit me at all. I've asked her if she shaves and she said no. how do i get her to shave?
Wanting her to shave
can't make her do something she's not willing to do.
I know some girls/guys get irritated the first time they shave. So perhaps a trim would best fit both you and her?
The only thing you can do...apart from shaving it yourself ...would be voicing your opinion and hope she's game.
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Do you completely shave all your pubic hair?
I just looked at your other posts. I'm going to guess and say you are a virgin? If you are and you're making these requests, then I'll say you're being an ass.
No means no, dude. Take a hint. You can't make someone do something they don't want to do and trying to convince them doesn't help either. If you keep bugging her about this, not only will you be an ass for it, but she could get fed up and leave you.
My advice for you is to give it up and accept that girls have pubic hair also. Stop watching so much porn.
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Well, it's something you're going to have to deal with if she says no. She could be indifferent about it. I'd take a safe, steady and non-aggressive approach in asking her, and then if the answer is no, then you'll have to live with it - as the others said, you can't make her do anythign she doesn't want to do. Plus, sex is sex, and when I have it, I don't think I should let hairs get in the way
We do what we do in life because the world tells us it's right. But what's there to tell the world whether or not what -it's- doing is right?
You could always ask her to trim. Tell her (and actually mean it) that shorter hair will make it easier for you to perform oral sex on her (Don't forget to do it, or you'll face a terrible wrath and very poor sex)
I'm going to assume like the second poster that you have yet to get sexually active with your girlfriend like you said. if im wrong then you know what your talking about and can disregard this post. when me and my girl where starting to get more intimate i asked her if she shaves and she said no. shes kind of a klutz and dosent want to hurt herself. she does however trim every so often but it was still pretty furry. i had never had anysort of sexual encounter and always figured i would want her clean shaven or at least very well shaven some hair would be okay. anyways so i finally go down on her and it is really not that bad. when your getting into it you hardly notice the hair at all and its definatly not bothersome. appreciate the female body for the beautiful thing it is. and if you get hair cought in your mouth you can always have a good laugh about it later
hope this helped.
Just to add to your story;
My GF is COMPLETELY clean-shaved (yea, really, no landing strip or anything, lol) yet every time I go down on her I seen to get a hair in my mouth, lol; it is absolutely odd (It always seems to be hair from her head, go figure) Thus proven that just because your GF may be clean, doesn't mean hair won't interfere.
I agree about the being an ass...cuz ya, thats a pretty ass thing to want to convince your girl to shave after she has already expressed she doesn't desire to. C'mon man, is that seriously what your worried about the first time with her? its really no big deal if a girl has pubic hair, it doesn't get in the way of anything. i also agree with the "stop watching porn" comment...
instead of pleasing the social norm, try to please yourself...