For the boys, about boobs.

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Alot of people are very offended with me and Im always told Im brutally honest.I prefer brutal honsty to stupid games.the biggest thing you got against you in my eyes is BEING A MINOR. well actually the biggest thing is tht Im with julie.However, while Im not te only guy that likes little boobs, Im nto inteh majority either. its a matter of personal opinion. I just know I cant be witha girl if Im not physically attracted to her as well as mentally.some peopel are e opposite of my tastes and need big boobs, its just a matter of personal opinion.however Abi, if yuo feel scorned by me, you can always reach out to bob! I have friends that have medium to huge boobs, I even have friends that have blonde hair, personally I dont like blondes and have never had one as a gf, it just does nothing for me in the mental sex department, Iv never liked blondes, I like girls with dark hair. all my partners have been dark haired, skinny, small to medium boobs, and tall, 5 8 plus. that is outside of some drunken encounters that I dont recall but woke up with nad even they were not blonde, or atlest at the time I did em.The point of all this rambling is that different strokes for different folks, and that I dont think if your not atleast physically attracted to a woman then nothing is gonna happen. While I dont speak for everyone I think I do speak for a majority.I wear what I want, what ever feels comfortable, I dont give a shit if Im hiding flaws, or showing them off. Im who I am, take it or leave it. I think that most couples would be alot happier if they felt like they could be who they are instead of trying to impress the other one all the time.

the thing is Abi.. each guy has his own likes. chance like smaller tits and legs.. i'm not crazy about huge tits either.. i think her tits should fit her body. Shannon don't have big tits.. but she has theses bras that are padded or some shit and then it makes them look big...but their not. when she rides in her sport bra it smushes her down ...and she looks like she has tiny ones. ok.. i started rambling and forgot wut i was gonna say.. dang! oh.. well when i first saw her it was her dark hair and light green eyes that attracted me to her. it wasn't her tits or butt i first looked at.. but yea i did check that out too. like chance is into legs... i'm more into bellybuttons. i think liking legs is not really rare... but belly buttons. At first Shannon thought it was funny that i liked messing with her stomach/belly button over playing with her tits. i think she thought that's all guys liked or something... I’m not sure why I am into bellybuttons … I have a theory tho. lol

yeah I get what you're saying. physical attraction is basically what comes first since that's the first thing you see is the appearance of the person.lol though I'm not blond I do have light brown hair... Italians have really nice dark hair though. Especially Italian girls. As weird as it sounds I always play in my girl friend's hair because her hair is like raven black and silky smooth. Unfortunately, I have big boobs for my size, don't really know where they came from. I just woke up and they were there like the two evil limitations they are. I have no problem with the butt though. Never really cared too much about it. Having a big firm butt is like a craving fetish over here. "shorty with a fatty"

want to know what Im really into?
that line that runs from chin to spine, when a girl is facing away but turns her head back to look at you and thers is this amazing line that runs from her chin acrost her jaw, down her neck an shoulder and down parralell to her spine. with clothes with out clothes, its the sexiest fucking thing I can think of.
I do love long slender but wel toned legs and a small tight ass, a thin waist a hard stomache, but not as much as I like that line. a tossback to photography class from my high school days maybe?
You are however right, its a personal thing, some guys like this and some like that, it would be a pretty fucking boring world if everyone was all into the same thing.

Dont think I said that big boobs are bad! they just are not with in my tastes, I dont see them as being bad, Iv even had a few girls that had bigger than I like but because of other shit personaliy, or other physical features the boobs didnt matter. In a perfect world it wouldnt matter what you looked like or how you were built, but in reality it does. there is some guy thats into fat girls and some that are into too skinny girls, some that like em big boobs and some that like them to look like a 12 year old boy, I personally fall in between those two, I like some boob, but I dont want it to be a dominating feature, and big is realy relative to the rest of her build, a short girl vs a tall one can have the same isze boobs and it loosk bigger on teh short one than the tall one. yuo shoudlnt under rate yourself because of what I said on a forum on teh net, I only offer opinions from my own mind.

yeah I know, but I've always had insecurity with my chest, since I actually got them which wasn't that long ago being a late bloomer. I felt more free with smaller ones and I didn't have to worry so much about what to wear and I could do more things. now I'm always hiding them and sports bras have become my new best friend because they flatten them and people don't notice. I get embarrassed when guys look at my chest. makes me feel even more... low lol. And I used to wear brown contacts and get my hair straightened because I used to get teased about my green/hazel eyes in my younger days for looking like an alien and having curly hair like a lion. matter of fact my nickname was alien. and I've gone through all junior high and high school with straight dark brown hair and dark brown eyes. believe it or not life was soooo much easier. But this year I've decided to go natural because I just realized... I really don't care what people think about me and if they don't like it then they can suck my big toe. lol

lol it's not that weird. I'm attracted to guys' hands and ears. don't ask I just do. then comes normal things like the hair and the neck and eyes. and lips! man if I see a boy with some plump gorgeous lips. you're good to go. like my bf, I could stare at his lips for hours lol. and when guys lick their lips. hallelujah!

I wouldn't say we're FORCING oursleves not to look, but the more polite of us, or more sneaky, try not to. Guys' eyes tend to wander without our meaning. Trust me, we don't feel intimidated at all, or wish you wouldn't wear such clothing, especially when you're a "gifted" young lady. All I ask is when a guy is looking at your chest:

1. if you're talking to him; count to three, and if he's still looking, THEN you can go off on him
2. if he's accross the room; wave or say something
3. if you ask hiom to read your shirt or YOU look at your boobs, don't get angry if he does too. If you're looking at them, why can't we?

Note for guys: Dont stare at girls boobs, and for god's sake don't ASK to look at them...BE SNEAKY...dumbasses

I remember the 80's with those mirror sunglasses. No one could see your eyes at all and staring was easy, even if they are talking to you. If a woman wears a low cut something or other and have a nice cleavage, expect to be looked at by guys of all ages. When I am 80, I will still ogle at something that looks great. Women do alot of staring too as they get older as a cute guy walks by. Ive had alot of older women cop a feel especially when I am in uniform. It does not bother me no matter how old or ugly they look (not all of them were ugly, just some). Double standard, guys touch not at a strip club but women can feel and suck all they want at a male strippers unit.

Okay, I hate not being completely original, but I'm reminded of something I once saw....

Maxim magazine put out a calendar, years ago, with certain rules for men and women. One of the aforementioned rules was:

Women who wear low-cut blouses and push-up bras lose the right to be pissed about men staring at their breasts.

Does that help?

Oh, and I LOVE to look at what offered

I LOVE wearing sunglasses so I can stare at really HOT girls' boobs and I don't have to worry about being noticed that I am staring. Unless the fact that after not too long I usually start getting hard and end up having to adjust myself or look like I got a pole sticking straight out.

I dont particularly mind, really. I have a girlfriend so its more just interesting than lusty for me, but the thing that gets me is when girls get so offended and uppity when people look or comment on it.If you're going to wear something with half your tits popping out, be prepared for some uncouth statements, ladies. Your boobs are out there, and they WILL be looked at, whistled at, commented on. Deal with it or wear a regular shirt. =(

yah thats my strategy toonote: works best outside so people arent like "wut the fuck"

Originally Posted By: OldFolks>>>"some think worse."Yeah, like me.... I think, "I wonder what kind of bush she's got? O-natural, trimmed, shaved or landing strip." I hate landing strips.

well firstly im responding to someone who wrote that women wear those things because they want us to look, thats not necessarily true, i take fashion class and the whole epidemic with showing off a womens body started hundreds of years ago...

before they were forced to wear corsets, and clothes that made them look like they had triple D's and HUGE asses, after women began gaining there indepence they wore what they wanted, but at the start they wore clothes that did nothing for the female body, flat straight dresses, that showed off no curves...

later on, after the baby boom, women felt like they should set them selves free, and not care what people think, this is where skirts and other revealing clothing came into the picture...

now a days its mainstream media guiding there clothing decisions, they choose to wear tank tops, and "Juicy" on there ass because its fashionable and makes them feel comfortable and in style...

but for the sake of the relevance of this topic...

1.) I think that if tube tops allow you to be comfortable, go head on with ya bad self...

2.) Your a women, and ALL women have beautiful bodies, SHOW IT OFF!

3.) I am an ass man, but as far as breasts go, as long as what you are wearing is fashionable and looks good, then i dont see a problem with it...

Originally Posted By: wtfmateI've been wondering this for a while now.But it's not exactly a question i can just ask my guy friends.When we girls wear low cut shirts or tubetops/tanktops...etc, are you boys forcing yourself not to stare and look? Are you intimated or even annoyed that we wear such things?Would you guys rather us wear those clothing less often to lessen the temptation of staring?Or are you boys just the sneaky type, only feasting your eyes when no one, particularly us, is looking? I'm a dude, and I'll answer. I'm a prude. I really do have a problem with low cut shirts. I do not stare and look because I consider more of a form of advertisement of what you have no intention to sell. I find it an irritant, and I wish so badly that women would cover themselves up. Not do to temptation, but for decency.That wasn't meant to come off fussy, but yeah, I really do have a problem with it.EDIT: So you all know the scope I'm speaking in. I dont like tightness, and I dont like to see cleavage. On my girl? heh, have at it. But I dont want to see anyone else's. Yeah.. I'm that bad.. Considering my own girl show's a little cleavage in public in almost anything she wears, and it probably does irritate to an extent, but she's not as bad as a lot of the women at my college.