Do you believe in casual sex?
Yeah, I was having a conversation about sex with a friend of mine last night.
I'm fine with casual sex, there is nothing wrong with it. Sex is a natural instinct that only comes after breathing, eating and drinking, all of which can be done during sex. I will have sex with someone as long as they pass my 3 requirements:
1 - They must be legal.
2 - They must not be related to me.
3 - They must be sexually attractive to me.
Lol well the first 2 are fine with me
OK, considering how uncomfortable you are with sex in general, I'd suggest that you cancel this little get-together. If she makes a massive fuss about it, then personally, she's a little bitch that doesn't deserve the time of day. Its no different from a guy trying to guilt a girl into sex, which is a despicable act.Not everyone is great at sex, and hardly anyone is good at it at first. Its all about practise, communication and most importantly, having fun. If you're not having fun while having sex, then there is no point in doing it.
Yeah, I'm just a little picky. Ya know, picking girls over guys...
But she's not a bitch she is nice person and she deserve alot better then she is getting now. As for not havin fun, i only care about her feelings i don't gave a dam about mine, im just not looking forward 2 it thats all.
Well its a lovely noble thing to disregard your own feelings for someone else, its like the hero throwing himself into the burning building to save others. But you are in a relationship, if both of you aren't getting the most out of it then there is something wrong. It sounds selfish but your feelings are just as important as hers.
If she wants to go see a silly little girly movie in the cinema that you're not looking forward to, then of course you make the sacrifice without question. But when it comes to sex, you should never be uncomfortable. As I said above, if you're not enjoying it then you shouldn't be doing it. Find a way to make the situation enjoyable or don't do it.
This is, of course, all just my personal view on things.
My feelings mean nothin too me anyway, also its kinda hard 2 say no if i know she gonna break down into tears because she thinks i don't want her because of what happend 2 her.
Your feelings don't mean nothing to you?
Erm no....i asid...my feelings mean nothin 2 me, i think i said that.
you know what bob? suck my big toe.and at this point, anything is better than new york. I need a break.abstinence is the road I'm taking, btw.
Double negative?
Ok then, I got way too lazy to read everything that everyone has said, so I'm just going to answer the original question. Yes I believe in casual sex. Too many people make such a big deal of it. All it is is two people getting together and making each other feel good physically. I know it's better when the two people are emotionally attached to each other as well, but sometimes you're not always going to have that. I mean, lets say you have a friend of the opposite sex (or same, depending how you swing), and you're not attracted to each other in that way but you both want to take care of your needs. I feel it would be fine for you two to get together and help each other out, no strings attached. It's not a big deal.
But what if your gf is watchin u do it and/or is involved?
Huh? You can't have casual sex if you have a girlfriend. Unless you're into swinging. Then by all means go for it.
ummm... you guys make sex sound REALLLY COMPLICATEDthere's no passion anymore. everything sounds so technical.
No, not at all. It's so not complicated. This guy is just confusing the hell outta me. What I'm saying, is that casual sex is ok, but you can't have it if you have a g/f, unless you're both into swinging. Very simple. There can be plenty of passion involved, but it's not always going to be that way.
I would respond with something witty, but I'm too depressed to think. LOL.
That's too bad. I would have enjoyed reading a good witty comment.
Nope. :P
hmmm maybe its just a very bad idea, and shouldn't be done. I hope something gets in the way.
