Hello everybody as u can see i'm new here so i'd like to thank everyone who's working on this site for they gave us the guts to ask and have brain-storming sessions of things we usually get embarrassed to ask about.anyways to keep it short, i'm 21 years old male and i have got few problems..the first and usual problem is erection that i get a lot..havent been caught (only caught when needed). my second problem is that as soon as me and my girl start cuddling and making out i feel a lot n a lot more of precum which really bothers me how it most of the time appear on my pantsthe last and final problem is that i think i ejaculate too fast..as soon as i receive a hand job i dont last that longthanks a lot for your time and help in advance
Stimulation and ejaculation problem
Well for your spontaneous erection problem you could keep it under the flap of your underwear.For your pre-ejaculatory fluid problem, I've got to say, my damn! I'd actually be happy to be able to produce that much of an amount. But because it's bothering you so much that it actually shows on your pants... I'm not sure what to say. You can't stop it in anyway but you can't make out all the time with your clothes off...As for your lasting problem, are you new to handjob stimulation? Anyone new to anything sexual tends to go by pretty fast. If you are not new to it and it's just a big whole problem that never gets solved by the constant experience of a handjob, then try foreplay breaks in the middle of a couple of strokes. That brings stimulation down to a zero while your girlfriend takes it elsewhere and, when wanted, she'll start again at the main "piece." It's kind of like the masturbatory technique, Stop & Go. Just... watch out for Blue Balls. If you ejaculate from foreplay then I really don't know what to tell you
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Welcome to A2A, adel!Spontaneous erections will happen less and less as you get older. In the meantime, they show less if you wear tight underwear (briefs or boxer-briefs) and loose trousers. That would probably help reduce how much precum soaks through, too. It's even better if you can waer a shirt that hangs down over the area.Tony's suggestion of stopping hand jobs temporarily to spend time on her sounds a very good one.