Gf pissin me off!

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A couple weeks ago when I first asked her out, she seemed so excited about the prospect. She would call me all the time, she would talk about how much she liked me, and she would spend as much time with me as possible. Lately however, it's like a switch has been flipped, in the last couple days I haven't talked to her at all. I tried calling her today but she didn't answer, I left her a text message telling her to call me, but she never did. I saw her on myspace later and got kind of pissed, so I messaged her telling her that It was rude to ignore a persons phone call. She still hasn't called me back, and I know I'm not going to call her again. I don't know what is going on with her, a week ago she told me that she was lost without me around and that she was falling in love with me, now it seems like I'm the last thing on her mind. Whats going on?!!

Either she decided she's not into you anymore or has "fallen in love" with someone else now. Teenage drama.. Be done with her.

Originally Posted By: sdpEither she decided she's not into you anymore or has "fallen in love" with someone else now. Teenage drama.. Be done with her. Agreed, its all just teen drama, thats life for ya.

How did you change? Did you become clingy, or always say "cute things" that you hadn't said before? Stop doing the stuff you did before you started going out? There's a reason a girl tends to stop liking you. It maybe that what she saw in you before is longer there. I would leave this one, get under someone else and don't make the same mistake assuming you know what you did wrong. Good luck man.

Nope I didn't change a thing, I've been myself sense the day I met her. If she doesn't call me back today then I'm just going to move on, I did like her but oh well, at least I got in a quicky before she left :wink: lol.

You left out the quickie in your original post. Can that have anything to do with it?

Originally Posted By: question?Nope I didn't change a thing, I've been myself sense the day I met her. If she doesn't call me back today then I'm just going to move on, I did like her but oh well, at least I got in a quicky before she left lol. Yeah, that may be why she sint feelin you right now. She probably feels that you're using her for sex.

Usually I'm not a minute man but I was so worked up that day I just couldn't help it, plus she wanted to make it a quickie because she had to go pick up some groceries or something. Well anyhow, she texted me today asking me what I was doing, I told her she should come over and she said she might drop by later. I hope she does I'm not ready for this one to slip away.

The term "Whipped" comes to mind. Don't be a dog with his tongue out after this girl. It's too pathetically predictable. Let her work for it. Never Give In.

Trust me, I'm not running to catch her, I know that being clingy and acting desperate actually pushes a girl away. If it's over, so be it, I'm not going to run after her. After our little myspace altercation yesterday, I decided that I won't be calling her anymore, I'm going to leave that up to her.

Trust me, I'm not running to catch her> I'm not ready for this one to slip awayWhich one of these are you going to stick by?

Well I'm not ready for her to leave, but if she does I'm not going to look like a dork and run after her. Thats what I meant anyways.

If you aren't ready for her to leave, then why not go running after her like a dork (your words, not mine)? If you like her, then isn't it worth running for?

I just know that if I run after her it's going to make me look desperate, and that is the worst thing you can do to yourself in regards to women. However this could all just be my paranoid brain pulling tricks on me, she hasn't said anything to indicate that we broke up, maybe its just that time of the month, who knows.

Is it just me, or is this thread confusing?

Holy crap your good! I'm 19 and she's 18, I graduated last year and she's finishing up her senior year right now.

with all due respect I have to ask what the fuck makes you think you knwo whats best and worst when speaking of the fairer sex?its just that time of the month? thats a real brihgt fucking thing to say. all that does is piss them off. and at 19? fuck you have a distorted view of girls.if you dont trust her dump her. is you cnat handle being out os chool and her still attending dump her, you know nothing of what a woman wants or needs and apparently how to talk to them.this isnt your last gf youll ever have, at that age I highly doubt no matter what you do youll end up married to her or even indeed if you did that it would last.lose her, find another, stop fucking around and get it over with.

I give my sincere applause and kudos for this rich serving of common sense from someone with more experience.

I straight up asked her yesterday whether or not she wanted this relationship and she told me that she doesn't know. Thats It, I'm gone, I hope she has a nice life

Good show, no matter how much it hurts, you have to realize you did the right thing in the long run.