So i really like my current GF alot, she seems actually perfect its amazing, i cant even believe that there was someone out there this perfect for me. We havent done anythng too sexual yet....anyway i notice when i think about her having sex with her past BF's it bothers me. I would never bring it up or anything but it just bothers me inside when i think about it, maybe its my own personal insecurity but has anyone else ever felt like this? I think im just afraid maybe i wont be as big, or as good as her past BF's or something like that.
Does it bother you?
Yeah man, I feel ya. It upsets me when I think of my girl's passed conquests. Like her giving other guys head and shit -- that REALLY bothers me. Even seen clerks? 37 DICKS!!!! anyway. try not to dwell on it a lot. She has to think about your past as well, remember that. If you don't have any...GET TO WORK!!
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I think it's your own personal insecurity. How do you know her past boyfriends sexually satisfied her? You shouldn't worry about that because she's with you now, not them.
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As said before ad nasueam; try not to think about it. My first ex had MANY dicks in her (She was from Toronto, what can you expect?) but honestly, it didn't really bother me much; I made her toes curl when she was with me...and that's all that counts (Unless there are STD's...that's a different story)
My second ex was a virgin, so she was on the other side of the fence, as I had had a long-term partner before her. Other than a feeling of intimidation (for her being with an experienced guy) she got over it pretty quick and didn't do much dwelling over the past.
Originally Posted By: blackmanoncampusYeah man, I feel ya. It upsets me when I think of my girl's passed conquests. Like her giving other guys head and shit -- that REALLY bothers me. Even seen clerks? 37 DICKS!!!! anyway. try not to dwell on it a lot. She has to think about your past as well, remember that. If you don't have any...GET TO WORK!!
Yah ive seen clerks haha. Yah it just gets to me idk why, ive had sexual experience's with other girls before, im still a virgin but i have gotten head, givin it also, fingered etc, thanks for the advice.
Also thanks alot Classy Black Women your right, shes with me now not them, and plus i dont know if they did satisfy her, i think im more hung up on penis size im average myself (in between 5-6) last time i measured and im just thinking, what if she was with someone that was gigantic what will she think of me? Thats what gets to me the most.
Anyway thanks all for the advice.
I used to think that myself, since I've always been with more experienced women than myself. It's all good, man, you're satisfying her now, that's all that matters. But yeah, that's normal to fell jealousy, it's human nature.
If she rejects your size shes not right for you..
Your size shouldn't mean anything don't worry.. i been in the same place as you... and it turned out very well she enjoyed it alot better then all the bigs ones she was with before... considering im only like 5.5"(at that time) and she told me they were 10"
Dude..shes' with YOU for a reason...and your size has nothing to do with anything..I was skooled on that with my current fiance...she had guys that were bigger than I am (i'm in the 6-ish range) and I dwelled on how I could measure up to those standards...then I realized that being with her then and even now..I don't focus too much on satisfying her with my 6-er..I focus on her and her body and what makes her....you know...enjoy it...enjoy her body and let her be aware that you love it...you penetrating with your perfectly sized lightsaber..is just a bonus...enjoy her man.
"Giving anything LESS than your BEST, is sacrificing the GIFT"
dude, don't freak. We all think about it, but if ya get down to it, she is with you. If there was a serious issue, then she'd be gone. if you're worried about ur equipment then i don't know what to say man. just be urself and do what ya do best and she'll fall. plus, practice makes pefect