My ex-boyfriend and i dated for almost 2 months. we always argued over little thing but in the end loved each other even more. but i wouldnt have sex with him so we broke up friday december 08, 2007 and that same night he had his cousins fiance at his house and 3 people told me that they were dating now. i really miss him and i want him back. shes a whore but he likes her and i just want to know since he said he REALLY loves and loved me should i try and get him back? How can i break them up? i am heart broken. she dont deserve him i doubt she really even likes him but idk please tell me what to do.
Welcome to A2A, heartbroken.
If he broke up with you because you wouldn't have sex with him, that should be the end of it. He has chosen sex over you - let him go, and good riddance.
Start relationships after you have a career and a steady paycheck. Men were never good for the social mobility of women, you don't want a male liability before you've settled into the world of magic and capitalism.
I agree with all of these people.
Two months can seem like such a long time when you are in the moment, but when you look back it will seem almost insignificant.
I'm not saying love isn't possible in such a short period of time, I'm saying its unlikely and that you can move on.
He isn't worth your love and you should waste your time trying to get someone like that back. You will find someone who really does care about you and does respect you, and after you date him for longer than two months you'll be thankful you didn't chase the other guy.
Move on, don't waste your time with lost causes.
"I have a fine sense of the ridiculous, but no sense of humor."<br /><br />- Edward Albee
Totally agreed with Ineligible. If he's chosen sex over you, he obviously doesn't care that much about you. He wants your body, not your affection. Screw him, you can do better than jerks. Good luck in finding someone who can treat you decently, with love.
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