Hi, im 17 years old, have never been in a relationship in my life,im not a bad looking guy however, and could get a girl that i would find attractive, but i dont follow through ever.It seems like I always have a few girls liking me, and then ill begin to like a girl who doesn't like me and Heres the thing, once i find out they like me, the lust begins to die?? I can't seem to embrace it, and as times goes by i eventually begin to resent them, and look at them negatively??? Could it be that im actually scared of a relationship, since ive never been in one? B/c i do find when i think about asking out a girl, i dont know how to go about it, or how things will play out after that,since im so unexperienced in relationship... and i guess that might scare me?? Any advice would be great
Scared Of A Relationship?
well there is only one way to get experience, maybe your just afraid of them saying no to you? To ask a girl out, can be a bit nerve racking at first... but just get her alone and ask her out. see how things go from there no one knows how the future will play out so enjoy it while it lasts
With Life, there is a 100% chance of Death
New things are usually scary, so it could well be that you are scared of a relationship. It is indeed life-changing.And relationships aren't predictable, and that's scary. You can't plan them out in advance - you can only dive in and take what comes.But it's worth it.
That might transcend into your relationships. Mine is a similar case, I can't be with one girl too long without trying to find faults that I can use as an excuse to get out of the relationship. I cannot commit to anyone person. I'm 34 and have a lil more experience than you but I think we're similar in that way.