Is it true your personality changes after..

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..you lose your virginity? I heard it from one of my cousins, just wondering if its true.

Not at all. You don't look, smell, talk, walk, or think any differently than you did before sex.

Well thats weird then because my cousin told me that after he lost it(like a month ago) his mom immediately noticed he was different in a way, even though he felt the same. She asked him why hes acting so different and he told her why(which is kind of weird to tell your mom)

If he was obviously acting different, then I question what his usual mannerisms were before and after sex. I would guess how his experience really effected him.ADDED: However, my first answer was in general. If the experience was a normal session, I don't believe it would change anyone. If it was somethine really drastic, like rape or peer presure, then it's going to leave a bad mark.

Well he was usually a shy/quiet awkard guy...i still see him the same though, but hes not trying so hard to act cool anymore like he used to..I guess mothers just have that "intution" when something is wrong with their children...

Perhaps it gave him some confidence.

Originally Posted By: eh501Well he was usually a shy/quiet awkard guy...i still see him the same though, but hes not trying so hard to act cool anymore like he used toHe's a quiet guy who acts cool? That doesn't make much sense, lol. But anyway, if he isn't doing he usual mannerisms, then my guess that something bad happened.

Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star Originally Posted By: eh501Well he was usually a shy/quiet awkard guy...i still see him the same though, but hes not trying so hard to act cool anymore like he used toHe's a quiet guy who acts cool? That doesn't make much sense, lol. But anyway, if he isn't doing he usual mannerisms, then my guess that something bad happened. TRIES to act cool..big difference lol

Ugh, I think I misread your post. Right now my brain is on vacation and I need it for work soon. If he's trying to act cool, then I agree with Ineligible. He just got a temporary confidence booster.

Brain...gone.... :sleeping:

Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star[quote=eh501]He's a quiet guy who acts cool? That doesn't make much sense, lol. Ever see a James Dean movie?

I don't think it makes a major change but it could be noticable. my friends said I relaxed alot when I lost my virginity. My two best friends lost theirs way before me so I was anxious to lose mine too.

Ugh, sometimes I just have reading issues. I'm a bit more focus at the moment, despite the time. So, since I'm feeling a bit more intelligent...I say, in my personal opinion, I don't believe losing one's virginity is going to change someone. I do believe there's going to be exceptions since no two people are the same. But I don't think that change is going to last very long.Hope that made a lot more sense.

Its true, 100% true, but only in high school!depending on who its with and who knows it can be for good or for far far worse (especially for a girl) than it was before.After HS noone gives a flying fuck and you dont feel any different even in high school, its jsut perception.Want to really make a difference in your life?over come a fear, set and reach a goal.and for a even bigger change in HS life, try sports, being part of a team is healthy, and peoples perception of you changes if your on a sports team in school.All of those make a bigger change in your life than getting laid for the first time does.

Now how the fuck does being a part of team change you? Pricks are pricks and pussies are pussies no matter where they are. I never did understand that team shit... of course I never played well with others. I hate team work and don't believe in it. Play on a team and then ya have to worry about your team mates screwing ya not just the other team.I don't go for this level playing field shit either. Screw that, it's not how life works. We don't all work together to get ahead we work together so the quarterback or receiver can get ahead. Bullshit on that. I ain't gonna do it. If someone's beatin' ya do what's gotta be done to win... trying don't get your face on the Wheaties box.Sports sets you up to be drown and follow orders for the glory of somebody else. Screw that shit. Believe it or not your in the real world and if ya don't trip, bite or get a head start your chances aren't good. You'll be far better served by learning to be clandestine and wily than to be a team player.God I hate fucking team players. The expression itself just pisses me off. If you wanna play a sport do it for fun, don't do it to learn anything.Can ya tell I'm not team player in addition to being a bit pissed today. You aught to listen to me when I'm not medicated. LoL

how it changes you is not how ti changes you its how it changes peoples perception of you in a high school or college.oooohhh! hes on the football team! hes cool, its that shit.It does NOTHING to change you, but it changes peoples perception of you. IF your on the team, suddenly they think theres a reason for you to be liked. Your the same person you were before, just like before you fucked your first girl, but now your seen as cool and important, simply because your on the school team with sex your cool cos some girl let you stick your winkie in her hooha.its all bullshit and its all fake, but it is how people, especially in school think.

Okay I got ya.

the only time I incite th team player speech was in my whoring days when Id ask a buddy to take one for the team and bang her friend so I could hump away on the good one!Honestly its all bullshit, but its how its perceived when I was in school and as evidence that its still that ay I offer up my son who was never overly popular before basketball and now has girls calling the house asking for him all the fucking time and guys that want to hang out with him and sponge off his new popularity. my other son that lives with his mother and attends a different school an hour away sees the same shit, hes nto on sports and has none of that popularity, but sees it with people he knows who end up on the school teams.same thing with teh sex, but the sex wont make you popular, just more respected.

Well how does a cool car fit into the whole thing? Same way I guess.It makes me think of all these old, fat, out of shape guys who go buy a Harley so they can be cool. On the bike they're cool, off the bike they're just another old, fat, out of shape guy. High school only ends when you die or when you decide your gonna do shit you wanna do because you wanna do it and fuck the rest. A fifty years old man's need to be "cool" I find quite disheartening. It's one thing to be fifty and buy a bike because you like it and want one it's another to buy it to be cool... that's just sad.

My dad was always the cool guy, a boxer and did time in the navy in japan, always stood up and kicked assand had money and nice cars and shit, that ended when he got old, and i mean over 60 by that,Now hes uhhh I dunno Id have to do some math, but he was born in 37.Hes currentlydriving a new toyota truck because he likes it and finally bought the bike he wanted.Its no harley, I love them, the looks and sound, but think tey are a piece of shit bike, he has as fucking drifter, about 800 pounds and rides that bastard all over. People see hima nd think hes cool, till he drops the helmet and they see hes wrinkled and old, then talk shit on him.The good part is he doesnt care, he bought it for him, and hes still beating ass!Last week he beat the fuck out of some guy that was walking around drunk in his neighbor hood nad talking to himself and told my dad he would kill him for looking at him.Wrong person to tell that to, and wrong person to walk onto his porch and take a swing, the old man beat his ass, broke his jaw and nose and arm then called the cops to haul him off.Its all the same though, the car the bike, the sex the sports, its all about perceptions of posture and possessions.