About to snap.

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Yea, once again i'm feeling depressed. It's just I feel like I don't belong with most of my friends. Now i'm bringing up a relationship thing (Again... :D), but its not about me - its my friends. So at school we'll be talking and then my friend will be like "Oh I did this with my g/f over the weekend, it was awesome" and crap like that. Then I come on here and everybody's talking about how their first time ended up, and whatever. I mean talk about whatever you want - but just hearing people say this, makes me feel like I don't belong. I can't share experiences, I can't be like "oh I did this with mine". So pretty much - I'm not sure if i'm depressed or if it's just me being so sick of hearing random crap like this.

I know how that feels. I can only say that life isn't about ratcheting up as many experiences as possible. It's about what sort of person you are.

there's one thing you can always be certain of, and that's that you belong. There are 6.5 Billion people in the world! That means if your at least one in a million, there 6500 people just like you, in the same situations as you.

People can always connect, and relate on so many levels, to the point where relationships are such a small part of that, such a small part of a person, that you as a whole, connect to your friends for something different. They are your friends for a reason.

Also, I dunno how old you are, but you could perhaps try to broaden your horizons by getting a job, or taking some college credit classes at your local campus, and make a new set of friends.

Yea, sorry. I'm 14 and getting a job has been on my to-do list for a while now.

do it You'll have a whole new set of friends, and you're depression will likely lessen when you have a job, and other things to think about

Your 14 and complaining about GF stuff? Go play some games.

Don't forget that your friends who talk about what they do could very well be lying. I do it all the time, and so do most of my friends. :smile:

You'll have your own stories to tell in due time, and you'll look back and wonder why you worried about it all so much.

Shot in the dark, too: Sounds a little bit like your bummed that you're not getting any tail. If that's the case then don't worry, most 14 year old guys aren't getting any ... no matter what you hear. I lost my v-card when I was 17. It'll come to you at the right time, I promise.

I lost mine when I was 13. Then for some stupid reason i broke it off with her... so I ended up not having sex for another 3 years!! haha, imagine getting a appetizer but waiting forever for the meal. But when I was 13, it was rare of hearing about people my age having sex, now it seems like the younger crowd is getting into more screwed up stuff.

I agree with you 100%I got a 15 yera old kid I been listening to bitch abotu the gf shit for a few years, and I keep explaining that hes not allowed, my rules say he has to be 16 to start dating. even after that grades slip or he fucks up and I can still ground his ass.at 14 they should be working on important shit like grades, learning new shit, and a bit of being a kid for the last few times hey have remaining before they become an adult. I remember feeling the same way when I was 14 or so, and Im speaking from experience when I say its not fucking important, theres a whole world you have yet to discover, not to mention people you have yet to meet.at that age you want the pussy, but you dont even know who you are, let alone who you want to be with, or what type of person you want.finding all that shit out comes much later in life.

But hey, it's not my problem - its hearing people ramble on and on and on about what they did.

But it's no reason to get depressed about it, plus I'd be willing to bet that most of it is grandstanding, exageration and BS.