Okay, Some time ago I realized I'm masterbating too much. I didnt stop didn't care to. But, I quickly realized that sex doesn't feel right. Sometimes I would become soft during intercourse. So I looked something up I forgot what though. I met my current girlfriend and i realized masterbating takes away some feeling you have during sex. So i stopped masterbating for about 3 weeks and had sex with my girlfriend. Then bam i ejaculated.
But now. I masterbate bout once a week. We had sex like once every two weeks. I am coming across the problem that when she gets super wet I can't ejaculate around the same time she orgasms so we gotta linger for me but then she gets sore. So i never get to ejaculate.
So now I'm about to stop masterbating again and see if that will help or we need to do something about her wetness.
Would this be the appropriate way to go about this.