Hey all i just got back from Oregon the other night. I ended up staying for an extra week so i could just ride down with my girlfriends parents for free, rather than take a bus.And Hi Rad! I saw your post. I was going to post last night but i was too tired to really do anything.The trip was pretty fun. I got to meet her aunt and uncle (the people i stayed with) and they were really cool and relaxed. I really started to like them the last week i was there as i got to know them more, they really made me feel welcomed, and said i can come back anytime i want. They already plan to take me with them next year when they all go camping.I also got to meet her cousins who were pretty cool. We didnt do as much as we would have liked to though. We had no car so we could only go into town when someone else went in, and we had to do whatever they were doing. So most the time we just styaed at the house and hung out, swam, walked, movies etc. I definitely learned alot about her on this trip. We had our first fight (we actually had a few) up in Oregon but it all got worked out. I started to realize alot more how big of a maturity difference there is between the two (me being the more mature one) and alot of other stuff. We had some big fights in the beginning but we worked them all out. We also had a few little ones towards the end but those were mostly just because we had alot of other problems there not related to us and i think we just took it out on each other.But everything got worked out. And it made us stronger as a couple and im very happy it happened.I also got alot closer to her mom on this trip. We really got to know each other more this past month, and she doesnt have sucg a huge protection barrier anymore. She was just scared and i understand. But we talked alot and got close and it was great. Shes a great person we just never took the time to get to know each other. But now she knows what im all about and she trust me and shes happy her daughter found someone like me. She even told me she loved me which was a shock.Anyway the trip itself wasnt to exciting but what happened there was nice. As far as me getting close with her mom and stuff, and me and my girlfriend growing as a couple. Its nice to see we can work our problems out. I really feel like a part of the family now and everything is good now.Its really nice to be home though. I missed it alot and im glad to be back. Alot more happened than i described but if i talked about all of it i would be here for hours. But those are the main things that happened. But we had alot of fun and im glad it happened.Anyways its good to be back, and hopefully ill be back to posting regularly.
Hello A2A, Im back
Welcome back.....I'm glad you had the oppertunity to become closer to her family. It's important to understand where someone comes from and why they beleive in the things they do. I'm glad her family greeted you with open arms. It's a great feeling..Well this place has been really slow.I don't think you missed much at all.Again, welcome back
Welcome back! It sounds like you learned a lot, which is good.