Hi Guys,
Ill jump right into it! Basicaly ive had many girlfriends, and i have really enjoyed having them..if you get me! But now that im at the stage to take it to the next level, namely sex, i cant seem to do it!
Whats weired is that i have all the urges to do it, and i look forward to doing it, then when it comes down to it, i freez! Obv i havnt done it before. I waited until i had a good relationship with a girl, i mean, i figure its best to do it with someone you know, trust, all that sorta stuff. Shes going away for spring break tomorow, and we really want to give eachother a parting gift...yeah very cheezy but i wont see her for a couple of months! I guss it would make it easier do have sex if you know the person and feel confortable...im getting off point.
Basicaly, ive had many, many opps for sex, but i keep getting too nervious and backing out. Its really fustrating, and im caught in a loop. i thought it was down to confidence, but i have no problem pulling girls, you know, going up to them in a club, in fact my mates go with me to townn because they figure ill get a group of grils over!!!
I just wondered if you guys/girls could give me your opinion etc. I know at the end of the day its up to me to sort this out but i figured i may as well ask on here as there seems to be some really good advice given on here.
I just want to break the cycle and enjoy sex as it should be, not feel scared of it!
Cheers.