Male v. Female

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Can be, usually isn't.Embrace who you are, only you, can be you.

but I love females, they're my favorite!

Just because you don't receive equal pay for equal work or because society forces unrealistic standards of beauty on your body or because you lack the genetic programing to properly use a remote control doesn't mean being a female is all bad. Seriously though, whats the problem?

I actually know one or two guys who can't paralell park!

Are you sure they're guys?

This sounds so totally bad but what the hell. There's this transgender fed-ex guy who delivers to the office. Well he started out as a she and I get to watch him try and back up his truck everyday and he still can't do it after three or four years now. Some genetic inferiorities even surgery can't fix... it's just joke people, just jokes... The sad part is I'm the only one who'll deal with him. He has to come clear back to my office because the lady who generally signs for shit won't even look at him.

I don't think being a female sucks, but yes to the other part. It sometimes feels as if they have all the power or preferance.

Just an observation. Folks who stick to what they are are most always the happiest. For example, if a woman tries to do the things a man does she's going to run up against some walls...and, no, not just culturally. Men and women are wired differently, generally speaking. It's part of the reason why the average man finds it easier to parallel park than the average woman, amongst other things. (And no, this last sentence wansn't a call for everybody who thinks they're the exception to come tell us all about it.) When a woman says "it must be great to be a man", she's obviously putting a higher value on what men do than what women do...or at least is overlooking some of the things men have a hard time with. As somebody said, valuing who/what you are is the key to happiness...and this is true in all things; not just gender.

Sorry about the "hate being a female" thing. I was having a moment. I don't know what's going on but I've been really... really anti-male lately. I honestly don't know why... no wait maybe I do. Idk I guess I'm just fed up. I live in the worst part of Mount Vernon and I absolutely hate when guys try to talk to me and I don't mean like in a nice way because if it was nice then I'd be cool. No. They talk to me like I'm some freakin daggone hoe.(warning I'm about to sound really... ghetto b*tchy so excuse me and bare with me this one time. I need to let it out). But I get so pissed off because I understand that I live in the crackhead parts of MV. The high rate of AIDs is OD. The teen pregnancy rate is OD. You got little elementary kids giving each other head (heard a weird conversation between a 3rd and 5th grader...) And I'm not gonna lie, most of the girls in my town are down right stank ass hoes. like... no joke. They walk around looking like a hoochie mama letting some nasty negro grab on their booty and tatas like they're working the block for their next meal. It's disgusting, and it disgusts me. So yes, MV girls have a reputation for being... excuse my language stank ass hoes. I, however, am NOT a stank ass hoe! Ok.. I work very hard to present myself in a decent matter and act appropriate. That's how I was raised, and I respect myself. I don't wear tiny micro skirts that show my good mornings when I bend down. I don't wear OD revealing shirts like I'm posing for MAXIM. And I DON'T throw myself at every nigga that wanna "tap that". I actually WORK to make MONEY so that I can take care of myself and help mi madre financially. And I work hard in school. So why in God's name do these stupid ignant jackbehinds approach me like I'm just another stank ass hoe? Like seriously? I'm not ya daggone "ma"? You aint gonna tap this booty? And I'm not gonna ride in your stupid ass camero so you could show me off to your stupid jackbehind friends like I'm some kind of item. Heck to the motherfreakin no. Don't ask me "ayo ma, you lookin dumb good. so what's up with me and you" what's up with me and you? Negro, I DON'T KNOW YOU! And then when I politely say "sorry, I have a boo, but thanks" I get "well yous a ugly ass bitch anyway". What the fudge?? So, now I'm ugly AND a bitch when just a few seconds ago you wanted to jump in my friggin pants? UGH! The rudeness, the disrespect, the perversion. It pisses me off so much.Is it me? Am I doing something wrong? What other reason would a guy have to grab my behind and then call me a bitch the very next 3 seconds when I call him a jerk. I just get out of work. I'm extremely tired. I have a ridiculous amount of homework to do. And you have the audacity to grab my behind like you know me? That is so RUDE! I should have kicked him in the balls! I'm just done. I'm done with this town. I'm done with these people. I need to get out before I kill everybody. I try so hard to be a nice person, and be decent, and tolerate people, and be patient and I feel like it's in vain. I hate being treated like that.And I've been anti-male for about a couple of months now mainly because of my oldest brother who is so self-centered and only cares about his big-headed self. He missed my birthday even though I told him a year ago about it. And I asked him "why didn't you come? I really wanted to see you and I haven't seen you in so long" and he was like "well you know I gotta do what I gotta do to make that money, so relax". And he's pissing me off because he doesn't even care. He literally just got out of jail and he's already back to what he's been doing before. Do people never learn? And he so insensitive. I'm trying to tell him how much he hurt me and he's just like "i gotta do my thing and you need to relax cause you know how it is". What the heck kind of response is that? How many times did I save his stupid black behind from gangbangers that were looking for him. BULL!Okay I'm done with my rant. I need to go calm down. eat some ice cream... chocolate... and watch Lord of the Rings. sorry you guy had to um... see that side of me... but Scotty asked so.... lol

one thing about being female you dont get drafted and if you really want out of the army you get pregnaught and youre out if youre desparte why do women say they want equal rights WHICH THEY SHOULD but dont think they should have to i say equal rights equal fights

Try not to cast all males in the same light. These guys do what the know and what they've been taught and see others do. They simply don't know any better and those that do are most likely going to go along with what they see their peers doing anyway.Not all men are the same... well we're all horny but some of us try to present ourselves in a dignified and respectful manner. College will be a different world with different kinds of challenges and is an environment in which it is easier to avoid those kinds of guys. Make no mistake, those guys, and worse, are there but college seemed, at least to me, a place where you could more easily pick and choose who and what you get involved with. Beyond that things get easier as the real world opens up to you. There will always be dicks in the world but as you progress in life they become fewer and your more in control to avoid them.Your on the right track, just hold to it and don't let anything else drive your life. Stay focused and always mindful of your goals and you can escape the prison of ignorance that the folks you describe seem to live in.

it is.I get paid more to do the same work as you, I can piss standing up with out it running down my leg, I can skip the shirt in public with no fear of arrest, I do not have to shave my legs or pits, no period to deal with every month, its fucking great.you do however have one huge advantage over men.You get ALL the pussy, you have control.and as a bonus you can have hot lesbo sex and men can only jerk off to it.