Hey guys, here's a little backstory. I'm 19, my girlfriend's 17, we've been dating for a year and five months, and seven of those months have been long distance, since I've had to leave for college.
But we are doing very good, and have an extremely strong relationship. Well last week I visited her, and we had sex(not for the first time mind you, we used to have sex all the time, and I would ejaculate inside her almost every time, she IS on birth control.) Well we had sex a few times everyday, and one day we did have sex, she forgot to take her pill until 4-5 hours after when she normally took it, I hadn't ejaculated in her that day, or any of the previous times we had sex since months ago. But, the next day, I did, she continued to take her pill, etc etc.
Well it's been seven days since we've had sex (I've flown back home for a family cruise I got thrown in on,) and her period was supposed to come yesterday, well it hasn't yet, and she's starting to freak out, like stressing really, really hard. She thinks she's pregnant.
I've told her, you need to stop stressing or you're going to trick your body into thinking you ARE pregnant, and you will miss your period for even more days, even weeks, but she doesn't believe me, no matter what I say she continues to think she's pregnant. It even causes us to get into fights over it. I'm leaving on Saturday for a week-long cruise, and cannot contact her as much as we normally can, if at all. But the day after the cruise I am coming back to where she is, and we are spending a month together before school starts back up again. I plan on getting a pregnancy test or a few to ease her mind.
I know it's not 100% that she's not pregnant, but in reality I believe the chances of her actually being pregnant are pretty slim. She just doesn't understand that the more she stresses, the more stress she WILL cause to her. Is there any way I can calm her down before we can take the test and show her everything is alright?
If worse comes to worse, we have discussed abortions (she brought it up, willing to have one), and we do have enough money to do one, but at the very end of the last time we talked about them, she told me that if she was pregnant...she wouldn't want to get rid of it. I didn't know how to respond to that so any help on that would be greatly appreciated as well.
So basically for those tl:dr people - My girlfriend thinks she's pregnant, I'm pretty sure she's not, how do I calm her stress to make sure she's okay and doesn't further delay her period, AND if she is pregnant, she told me she wants to keep the child, we can't support that and I don't want that, what should I do?
Thanks very much guys, you've been helpful in the past on the many accounts I've had, and I'm sure you won't let me down this time either. Thanks once again.
