I know this is a question some may find stupid but, i really dont know how to. I have seen on other sites this same question being asked but no answers just criticism, and rude comments or google it. I've been trying to find a answer but, can't and since this site seems to handle questions like this well i came here. I have learned alot from this site but, have not seen the answer to this question so if it has been awnsered, please redirect me. I know since being 13 may mean i can but i can't even get a "tingly feeling" as yahoo answers said. So please give some advice.
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How do i cum?
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Welcome to A2A,nitsuj. You are correct that this is a safe place. Rude comments are not tolerated.With regard to your question, it is not a stupid one and the answer is this: When the time is right, you will. Guys are ready at different ages; you should be soon. Don't worry about it because you can't do anything to hurry it up. Your body will start automatically when it is time.
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Thanks readytogo for the answer I feel a bit better. Also I have a quick unrelated question, when ever I am on it still counts me as offline any idea why?
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The software that works out and displays who is online seems to be buggy. Sometimes it has me as offline when I am on, or online when I am off.About your original question: having erotic thoughts, such as sex fantasies, tends to encourage a guy to rub his penis while continuing the thoughts. Eventually (usually after some minutes) a point comes when you feel an increase in tension followed by a release that can be anything from body-shaking to ho-hum. This is an orgasm. I don't know that a "tingly feeling" describes it at all. The feeling of release and ejaculation of cum normally go together.The usual stages of development, as you get older, are that at first stimulation as above brings no release, no matter how long it goes on for. Then later there may be a 'dry orgasm' with no ejaculation, though only some guys have this stage. After that there is ejaculation, though often at first this is clear, and later is the usual whitish colour when all the glands are fully functioning.
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I believe the “tingly feeling” that the person from yahoo answers is describing is, a dry orgasm mabye? People use tingly feeling to describe most feelings, from my experience at least. Anyways,thanks for the advice/help and more one question, what do you mean by ho hum?
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By "ho hum" I just meant something not particularly special.I fear you are right about "tingly feeling". I think the word 'tingly' should imply a prickling sort of sensation, but people often are more imaginative than accurate.
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Yeah many people use there imagination more than good, strong facts when answering questions but, thats what keeps us alive longer right? My grandma saw a study that stated that having a good imagination keep you alive a few years longer. Anyways back on topic... I looked up the dry orgasm thing, and I looked back at yahoo and when it was used in the context, I believe the “tingly feeling” is a dry orgasm. I've done some more research and have now ANOTHER question close to the original question (in some ways) it is, how do I know I can cum? What I am asking is if there is a way to know if i can without actually cumming? Because i've fallen on bars hitting my nuts and i've been told (I don't know if it's true but I think it is) that if you fall hard enough on your nuts you can't have children, which since I was in elementary school i'm guessing that means to cum.
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It is possible for falling on your nuts to damage them so much you can't have children, but if it were anything even approaching as bad as that there would be so much swelling and pain you would be hospitalised, I think.It is possible to be able to cum but to be infertile because there are no viable sperm in the ejaculate. The testicles produce the sperm but the rest of the process, including nearly all the volume of the ejaculate, comes from other organs.I don't see any likely reason to suppose you won't be fertile in future. I don't know of any way to know whether you can cum except by trying it out. From your post on the penis size thread it is clear puberty is progressing strongly in that area so it's likely that being able to cum won't be far in the future if you can't do it now.A2A is being VERY slow just at present!
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Sorry I do have a habit of getting off topic especially in writing. Anyways I hope soon i can cum, I don't know why I want to, I mean isn't spouse to be a mess to clean up? Maybe it's because its been something i've been hearing then thinking about? Either way I need to stop worrying about it and focus on the more important stuff. Thanks for your help.
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You will soon! If you keep masturbating past the tingly feeling, does anything happen?
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Originally Posted By: nitsuj504I know this is a question some may find stupid but, i really dont know how to. I have seen on other sites this same question being asked but no answers just criticism, and rude comments or google it. I've been trying to find a answer but, can't and since this site seems to handle questions like this well i came here. I have learned alot from this site but, have not seen the answer to this question so if it has been awnsered, please redirect me. I know since being 13 may mean i can but i can't even get a “tingly feeling” as yahoo answers said. So please give some advice. I suppose everyone is different. Most guys have a "wet dream" at some point, early on. I did, I woke up in the morning and my underwear was soaked. I thought it was odd, but I found out later it was normal. My first complete masturbation with successful orgasm at the end had to have been when I was about 14. It was scary, slightly painful, very exhilarating and left me wanting more. Now, many years later I consider myself a masturbation expert when it comes to myself, lol. You certainly should be old enough to masturbate to orgasm by now nitsuj, have you yet? An update would be nice.
