Is my penis small?

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@readytogo said:

@smolnerd Something we haven't looked at is the person she supposedly make the comments to. A guy or another girl? It may be that the issue lies with this person, and not her.

Whichever it is, it is not you. You have no apparent fault here.

@smolnerd said "but I hope that my theory is right" And what is that theory?

The person she made comments to was a guy, he's known her for a lot longer than me. She used to tell everything to him.

I don't know, I did seem to cause some of the things. ;~;

My theory was:
@smolnerd said:

I think she was just going along as to not hurt my feelings

I hope this guy is not making things up or exaggerating what she said.

@Ineligible said:

I hope this guy is not making things up or exaggerating what she said.

Usually when he's taking jabs at me or just poking fun he will exaggerate. Though he does know when to be serious and real, he'd seen first-hand how this situation really fucked with me, and I've known him long enough to know he isn't a douche like that. In fact, he kept saying "I'm sorry, ███████." and things like that. He was genuinely apologetic every time he told me anything, so I don't think he's exaggerating.

What is he apologizing for if he didn't do anything? You think he may be stirring the pot? Maybe she never said anything to him and he's making it all up. Now there's something to be sorry about.

@readytogo said:

What is he apologizing for if he didn't do anything? You think he may be stirring the pot? Maybe she never said anything to him and he's making it all up. Now there's something to be sorry about.

Th main reason why he was apologising was because he knew that I was going through intense emotional turbulence. Even after things had settled, he apologised because he knew what she'd said to him and what she'd laughed about would really hurt, Both him and I figured I'd need a bit of closure to move on. It did hurt, and stained my viewpoint of her, but it did help me to move on...kinda...Yeah there's still the insecurity, but it just sorta flared up when I posted the original topic because I was really depressed at that time. I've known him for years, he's not a total cunt like that (Pardon the language) it was just finishing the last few tidbits of something that'd droned on for too long already.

Personally, in that situation I would have said nothing, or have said something like "She was so far out of touch with reality that she said . . .".

Because it is out of touch with reality.

@Ineligible We're assuming here that all of them had their adult brains engaged. At 17 that is not always the case.

That's a good point.

@readytogo same applies to some that are in their 30's too!!

@Roc touche’

Dude, your size is very good it's above average, it would please any girl, your girl is not sane.

@faner said in Is my penis small?:

Dude, your size is very good it's above average, it would please any girl, your girl is not sane.

Well, that's what I've been hearing from everyone on this topic. .-. She never was, never has been, and never will be my girl. Yeah, she isn't sane, she's completely mentally unstable tbh. She's gone through a lot of trauma in the past which has psychologically scarred her, so yes, she isn't sane. Dude, this is an old topic for me, and I've already recieved a lot of answers, so pardon any rudeness,. I'm just kinda tired of this whole thing, and I'd prefer to move on with my new relationship. .- and face any possible judgement in the future...or from Reddit... .-.

Well, it's good to hear from you again, anyway, and I hope the new relationship is much better.

I don't know that I would trust the judgement of everyone on Reddit. :)

@Ineligible said in Is my penis small?:

Well, it's good to hear from you again, anyway, and I hope the new relationship is much better.

I don't know that I would trust the judgement of everyone on Reddit. :)

Yes, it's definitely better, and on the plus side it's actually a relationship. It's supportive and my gf is just as mentally screwed as me, and we both mesh well together. Lol, everyone on there has so far been really positive and complimentary with their PMs, if at times a bit uh, descriptive as to what they'd want to do. 😳 Um, if y'all want to see the stuff on my page, I can definitely link it.

It makes such a difference when it is a real relationship. I hope it all helps your self-esteem.

@Ineligible said in Is my penis small?:

It makes such a difference when it is a real relationship. I hope it all helps your self-esteem.

Yeah, it's great, I just wish she weren't all the way in another country. Tbh, it has, she's actually helped me be more open and accepting to compliments, and just makes me generally feel better just by taking to her, it's great. 😄 Btw, if any of y'all just want to creep out on me and try to see my junk and stuff, then here's my Reddit: Reddit.com/user/insecuretokunerd Also, quick addendum, apparently I'm actually cut, didn't legitimately know that. .-. Another quick addendum, my 18th was June 4th, so the things on that account are legal.