I have this female friend who's extremely touchy-feely and likes nothing more than to hug me to death! I've also shared a fair share of long passionate kisses with her (we're talking tongues... you get the idea!). First of all, is this normal?!
I had only known this girl for a couple of months, and our friendship was all very normal. Things got weird after a night out where she started hugging me lots and tilting my face towards hers before saying I was "pretty". I got home and I couldn't stop thinking about her. I phoned her the next day and told her I was confused - She kept asking me what I was confused about (as if she didn't know!) so I had to explain in detail. Later that day we met up in a busy bar continued the conversation (which consisted mainly of me bumbling away) and I told her that I was falling for her - I told her this so perhaps she'd back off and realise how easy I was to hurt. Instead she told me that she wasn't the sort of girl I should fall in love with because without meaning to, she would hurt me.
I should have taken that as a warning and ran out of the bar, but instead, I forget how, we ended up kissing in front of the whole bar. I walked her home and every so often we'd stop for a kiss... it was bizarre - Here I was, kissing this beautiful girl that I had just told in some pathetic way that I had feelings for her! So yeah, every so often when I see her, we're all over each other.
She's really hurting me, and she knows it (She's made me cry like a baby on 2 seperate occasions, and I never cry!!). Do you think she's just messing with my head?
Any advice is appreciated!!