Feeling really awful about myself...

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little me when you said, "i'm barely a 36 A myself. But like I said...that's in the girls section. It's so depressing!! " what did you mean? like whats a girl section? as in like training bras or an actual a cup? you should be happy if you're an a cup-its better than aa1

In reply to:Alright, this is really imbarassing and all....yeah. you know how it goes...Anyway, i'm 15 and in my opinion i'm not "developing" at the rate I should. I've always been a late bloomer and all, but lately it's really been depressing me. I hate shopping in the girls section for bras that "give you shape" and crap like that. I'm just sick of it. I do have a boyfriend. We've been going out for almost 4 monthes, and i've talked to him about how self concious I am on this subject and he assures me that he doesn't care but I really have a hard time beliving it. For awile I wouldn't even let him touch my chest at all just because I'm ashamed. I've pretty much planned on having breast implants when i'm older, and as soon as I can afford it because it bothers me that much. Sometimes people say stuff (you know how it is in highschool) and it really hurts but I ignore it and pretend I didn't hear and stuff, but then I go home and cry sometimes because I hate myself so much. And I'll shut up soon (if you even got this far without closing the page) Basically, what i'm trying to say is that I need either a way to make my breasts grow at a faster rate, or a way to make myself more comfortable with the body i've been cursed with. FYI: i'm 5'4" and 95 lbs. So...i'm thin, and I guess breasts are made of fat??? maybe thats why i'm not developing as I should? I don't know...just help! I would appreciate anyones advise. Even guys. I ont give a shit right now. Don't worry, you're not that old. You might still grow.But even if you don't... don't worry about it. It's hard to believe when you're young, but when you're in your 20s or 30s, a youthful (aka skinny and small-breasted) figure will actually be an asset. Just try to accept yourself and be happy with the way you are. Confidence goes a long way. And as long as your breasts are in proportion to the rest of your body, there isn't any problem. At 95 pounds, you don't likely have enough body fat to grow enormous breasts. That's just not reality.

Breast swize doesn't matter as much as the media wants to publicize. Most 'hot' chick I know have smaller breasts, and the only way the less hot chicks can keep up is to have larger breasts.... or soemthing like that.

Littleme, it's saddened me to hear you're so upset about your breast size. I'm a D myself and I hate it. I hate that I can't even walk around my bedroom without a bra (it hurts), I definately can't run without good support, and gravity is pulling them down. It also sux that when I meet guys they're usually more interested in my chest than who I am as a person.

I hate plenty of male friends who don't like big breasts, and I've been with a guy who told me straight out that my boobs were too big. And hey, look at Paris Hilton - she's not exactly huge, but most of the guys in the world want to bone her!

I don't think there is a perfect cup size babe, and you've just got to try and be happy with who you are and know that there are plenty of girls out there (like myself) who are jealous of you.

Plus, you're still young - I'm betting they'll grow in a few years. Meanwhile, enjoy the freedom of not having huge knockers that get in the way of EVERYTHING! :smile:

*hate = have. I HAVE male friends..i only hate some of them

They say that for men, puberty is hardest late, for women early. You may be feeling bad for not having breasts, but, on the flip side of the coin, so was the girl with the C cup when you were in your sixth grade. She was getting more of the attention than she needed. You'll mature and probably have small breasts, which will be a good thing when the boys get over being goggled by the bigger of breast.

Your're only 15, don't even worry.Your boobies will probably come in soon, and if they don't, you are still fine the way you are!!I'm 19 and only a 34 A!But I'm also skinny... 5' even and 110 lbs...My boobs are the perfect fit for my body i don't care what ANYONE says.If somebody prefers big boobs, then I'm obviously not their girl! I won't cry over it!Don't worry sweetie! Guys will LOVE your little boobies... and your big ones when they come in!

personally I like smaller breasts... 20-32 AA-BB.then I have friends who don't like 'em if you can curl them with one hand if you follow me... you'll do fine

dont worry about having to get implants later - the breast grows for a while. when i was your age i was in a B cup.. now ten years later - i'm in a deep D. just be patient - i know its hard but you can do it.

Personally i like girls breasts small. they are generaly more sensitive.

I'm unfamiliar with the challenges a 15 year old girl faces, but I understand what it is to feel bad about myself - so I'll lay down what I know and hope it helps.::Factual Stuff::-Being under weight/having an eating disorder at your age can stunt breast growth.-The milk glands in breasts are very similar from woman to woman (despite differences in breast size). Larger breasts simply contain more fatty tissue.-A woman's body does not stop growing (reach it's adult size + shape) untill she is 18-20 years old.::Sexual, Physical, and Social Stuff::-The media promotes a body shape (thin w/large breasts) that is naturaly found in less than .5% of all women.-Women with smaller breasts are less at risk for breast cancer (I'm not 100% positive about this one - might be wrong)-Smaller breasts are more sensitive to touch and sexual stimulation. The breasts are an erogenous zone (a part of the body that is densly packed with nerve endings and especialy sensitive to touch). When those nerve endings are spread out over a larger breast the area becomes that much less sensitive (which is really sexy - if you ask me).-Breast augmentation is not healthy! The list of possible problems with this procedure is staggering, including: loss of breast sensation, aysemetric breasts, infection, painful scar tissue that forms around the implants, and leaks or ruptures in the implants.::Stuff That's Kinda Personal::-Breast size isn't even a factor when I'm attracted to a girl. Personality always comes first and after that it's usualy a really nice smile that catches my eye.Sooo, yeah. I hope some of that helps - I know I always like to have the facts laid out when I'm facing a problem. Being 15 is tough (regardless of gender) and kids can be really cruel sometimes. THe fact that you're willing talk about how much this bothers you is really impressive. Trust can be a huge thing at your age and, if you feel comfortable with it, I would sugest sharing such feelings with the people closest to you. I'm 19 now and untill about a year ago I never talked to anyone about what bothered me - kids at school teasing me (mostly when I was younger), feeling inadaquate, how I actualy felt about things that bothered me. As a result my self confidence was not only non-existant - I hated myself - also, I let my grades slip (despite the fact that I'm smart), and I never really let anyone get close to me. I'm doing much better now, but the point is: feeling good about yourself is one of the most important things you can ever do to make yourself happy - and trusting people and talking to them can be a big step in that direction.

In reply to:Do you drink soda? If not, you should. Soda is actually surprisingly healthy for you. In the morning, it can give you a burst of energy letting you do better in school and it can also balance the acid level in your stomach (which can negate a stomach ache if you have problems with breakfast) because it is a base. WHAT ?!?!? I'm sorry man, but you are so wrong. Most sodas, like Coke are JUNK and are no good for your body. Sure it'll give you an energy boost, but then you come down off that boost hard and get sleepy. And soda is certainly not a base, it is VERY acidic. Not to mention the caffeine addiction...Darkness, I know it's really hard, but just relax about what you can't control. If someone is making snide comments your way then it is only because they are insecure about themselves. Even if it is the most popular people in school who are the best looking and have the most friends or whatever... guess what? If they are so secure in themselves do you think they would need to put down someone else?? I don't think so.

are u pretty? cuz if your a pretty girl dont even sweat it. ive had 3 gfs (only one actually showed me them during sex). but all seemed to be in the same boat as you. like a cups. they were all very pretty and didnt like to talk about there breast at all. (im asumming cuz they wre tiny). but i really did not care. if i were you i would obsess over it too much.

you're having sex and the women are keeping their tops on?

look if your guy likes you then i does not matter what you look like see my girl friend has small boobs too ( will i think she has no boobs ) well i love her not cuz what she has but what she is ( too tell you she is hot )

Ask yourself this, would you care, if you really really liked a guy how big his cock was?If the answer is no then thats probably how your bf feels about your chest......Try and be happy with what you have and who you are, we are all different hugs

I agree with missy, try having a large C cup at 12 years old! People on both sides of the spectrum have it equally hard. I'd be willing to bet there are other girls your age at your school who wished their breasts were smaller. I think you should just give it some time. It sounds like your chest is in proportion with the rest of your body, so once you begin to pick up some weight, your chest will grow. Also, look at the chest size of the women in your family, thats usually a good indicator of about how big your chest will be.

i like little boobs don't worry about it... im sure yours are nice

In reply to: Alright, this is really imbarassing and all....yeah. you know how it goes...Anyway, i'm 15 and in my opinion i'm not "developing" at the rate I should. I've always been a late bloomer and all, but lately it's really been depressing me. I hate shopping in the girls section for bras that "give you shape" and crap like that. I'm just sick of it. I do have a boyfriend. We've been going out for almost 4 monthes, and i've talked to him about how self concious I am on this subject and he assures me that he doesn't care but I really have a hard time beliving it. For awile I wouldn't even let him touch my chest at all just because I'm ashamed. I've pretty much planned on having breast implants when i'm older, and as soon as I can afford it because it bothers me that much. Sometimes people say stuff (you know how it is in highschool) and it really hurts but I ignore it and pretend I didn't hear and stuff, but then I go home and cry sometimes because I hate myself so much. And I'll shut up soon (if you even got this far without closing the page) Basically, what i'm trying to say is that I need either a way to make my breasts grow at a faster rate, or a way to make myself more comfortable with the body i've been cursed with. FYI: i'm 5'4" and 95 lbs. So...i'm thin, and I guess breasts are made of fat??? maybe thats why i'm not developing as I should? I don't know...just help! I would appreciate anyones advise. Even guys. I ont give a shit right now. look i am a guy and as i have said befor to someone else it does not matter how big your breasts are you are still beautifull in your own way and if your boyfreind does acually like you less just because of your chest size hes not worth waisting your time on, so just as a test open up a little and if he reacts anyway unpositively dump his ass if this helps you in any way plz send me a message or something.

Hello... i'm telling you my opinion... you only have 15 years... women develope from the 12 to the 19... you still have 4 years... maybe girls in school an other boys make fun or something... ignore them.. you have nothing bad.... there ae very attractive women that have small boobs... that doesn't really matter... all the huge boobed blondes wth a lot of sillicone under their skins.. are good for pics of calendar... not for reality.. what really count is how natural are you...

But if you still worry a lot when you have 19... you have the possibility of put an implants... beliveme... for women is more easy to solve those kind of problems... for us man.. ehem.. no..