I am 17 and my friend is 18 and going into college. I really like her but she doesnt know it. She has invited me to the movies a few times with her friends and we have just chilled before. She asked me to her prom and i thought this might be a hint ya know? And then i talked to her mom and she said "Well she didnt have anyone to go with so i suggested she should take you". This kind of lowered my hopes. I dont want to ask her because if she says no i will feel sorta akward, plus she is going into college and i dont know if im 'good looking; enough for her. HELP!!!
Does she like me?
I've been to 3 proms and going on my 4th next year in June when it comes up. I've always just asked friends, (or being that they weren't my prom friends have asked me) and its nothing its just simpler to have a friend and not having to worry about a breakup before hand or anyone weird feelings or any attachment if you want to dance with someone else as well. I mean I guess i'm not much help because asking someone to the prom doesn't mean anything to me, and as for going to the movies and hanging out dont you do that with your friends all the time either male or female friend i'm sure you've hung out with alot of people and that doens't mean they like you. Its kinda like when you are younger and someone says "hi" and everyone around you is like "oh my god they said hit hey are so into you" and we all know that that is just childish and has no relevance. But seriously if you like her you can just tell her, or ask her out on a real date, or ask her if she likes you more than friends in anyway what-so-ever. Thats really the only way to tell is that if she tells you.
Be a man. If you don't ask you'll never know. She may actually like you. Get her on her own and just say it. Theres no easy way out. Life isn't easy you just have to accept that the'll be times when your gonna have to put yourself out on the line and this is one of those times.