whenever my boyfriend fingers me or gives oral, i can never orgasm. is he just not doing it good enough, or is something wrong. when we have sex is it gonna be the same deal?
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Unable to be pleasured
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Unfortunately some women have a lot of difficulty getting an orgasm. Do you get one from masturbation?
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I try, usually it starts taking too long and I get impatient, so I just use the faucet from the bathtub, so I know I'm able to orgasm, I just can't do it normal.
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I think you won't know how you react to sex until you try. You'll want to experiment with positions to find the strong stimulation you need.
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Try using some toys, vibrators; etc.
Does he know where to touch you? Is he aware that your orgasm comes from your clitoris?
When he's giving you oral, maybe you'll have to gently move him to your clitoris, same thing when he's masturbating you. Show him where your clitoris is.
Are you comfortable enough letting him see it?