How come this fetish is so popular

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I've always thought it's because they are something that men don't have, so they are naturally fascinated by them. If men had boobs as well they'd probably find them a lot less interesting.

In reply to: I still think men are attracted by the purpose of our breasts What about guys who don't want children? What purpose would breasts have for him, if they are only there to be seen as suckles for children? why would he be attracted to something that he feels would never get any use, unless there was another reason he liked breasts. Perhaps because we're supposed to? Maybe that's as simple as it gets...We're supposed to like breasts. If that's the case, all the theories and what if's can be summed up in a simple answer: We're supposed to like breasts. The same can be said about woman. Y'all like penis' correct? or better yet, pectoral muscles correct? Of course there are exceptions, i.e. homosexuals.

In reply to: why would he be attracted to something that he feels would never get any use Why do people collect stuff like antiques or paintings? They may never have any purpose but they're still good to look at!

Well said! We don't have children because a doctor butchered her, when she was 19. Despite that fact. I enjoy her perky breasts and she loves me playing with them! She is very petite, at a size of 3-4, and usually will wear a girl's size of 16. Personally, I find her devastatingly sexy! A friend of ours ,who is almost 6' tall, has very large hips, enormous breasts and has birthed seven children! I don't really find her attractive at all but her husband is still madly in love with her! Everyone, has their own preferences. Fact: Men are visual creatures. Women are more emmotional. It depends on what the guy is looking for in a mate. Yes, if a guy wants lots of children he may go for the big hips and breasts. It's not about fetishes here but genetics garnered from primitive times.Like, red lipstick and thick lips. What do you think that represents? Short pleated skirts? Long hair? A tight little butt and an athletic bod? Large or small breasts? Sexy legs etc.. These are all visual signals to a potential mate. Breasts are just a part of the total package.ilikekisses: From a man's point of view: A woman's breasts "Do" have a dual purpose. Attraction first and feeding babies second. 'Nuff said. (Sorry for my bloviating)

My answer is all to do with genetics, one again. Breasts are a sign that most men look for ever since Primal times. "Woman with attractive breasts make good babies" Along with Hips, face, legs etc etc. Easily recognisable signs that a woman will be a good carrier for your genes.Also breasts aren't a fetish, a fetish is something to do with a non sexual object, like "knee high leather boots" for example.

Uhh boob can be considered a fetish...Let me prove my point. Feet, anything to do with sex...nope only when its over your head. Boobs...do they have anything to do with sex no. Childbirth not really. Because would size really matter? Are asses a fetish. I would consider so. Do they have to do with childbearing or sex...not really..maybe just more cushion for the pushin...

In reply to:just more cushion for the pushin LOL - I love that!!!

Interesting topic. I'm surprised most responses deal with the biological. How about the psychological and sociologigal aspects of forbidden fruit? In the middle east I have seen grown men go crazy seeing a woman's hair when head cover was removed. On the beaches and sauna's of Europe I have seen so many boobs, that after a time all erotic attraction is gone. Right now the forbidden fruit in US is the nipple (ie the Janet Jackson insanity). Current fashion is cleavage friendly. More cleavage in a college campus then at a Hooters. But God forbid if a millimeter of nipple shows. What is the attraction to that slightly different piece of skin? It's because men are not supposed to see it. Same thing with a flash of a thong sticking up from a woman's jeans. Not supposed to see it. Wouldn't give it a second thought on the beach. We are not supposed to see it...so we want to see it.

I also argue that men loving boobie's is not a fetish at all. A fetish is defined in the dictionary as an "abnormal" object serving as for sexual desire. So a fetish is something that a select group of people have. But every heterosexual guy, over the whole world, loves boobs. So it's not a fetish. Boobs aid in the reproduction cycle, by feeding babies. Having sex aids in the reproduction cycle - there is a connection. Girls nipples puff up and go hard when they are horny. Why? I don't know, maybe they are related to sexual activity.I've heard a theory that the reason why guys are turned on by boobs is because way back when we were apes, we had sex doggy style, like most other animals. So whilst "in the act" we would be staring at the ape chicks arse the whole time. So the ape chicks arse would be a symbol of sex and pleasure.As we evolved, we developed highly advanced communication skills through speech. So now, ape chicks wanted to communicate with their men during sex. So they turned around, and thus the missionary position was invented. But the poor old Ape man could no longer see the ape chicks arse. So he lost his stiffing and ran away. Eventually through natural selection and the theories of evolution, some ape chicks over time developed boobs. The ape men were very turned on by these "boobs", because they reminded him of the arse (two big arse cheeks, but on the front). Because the ape man was turned on by the fact that he could look at the "chest arse", while having sex in the missionary position - he sought out these ape chicks that were equiped with them. Sadly though all of the ape chicks that didn't have any "boobs" were left behind as a result, and slowly became extinct.The ape men were happy because now they were turned on again, and the ape chicks were happy because they could face the ape man and communicate with him successfully.This theory explains why men love womans curvy arses, as well as boobs. Well I do anyway. They look pretty similiar.Every man continues to love boobs - from the time he is born , to the day he dies.

Well honestly, just because its widespread does not mean its not a fetish. Boobs technically are fat and tissue..maybe a bit of muscle. Great aid in reproduction...big boobs and small boobs don't make a diffy in how much milk produced. Feets shouldn't be considered a fetish either then, many many people in the world find feets an interesting object...You can't really supportthe idea that ape chicks had boobs to make the man go crazy. Apes have saggy ass boobs...you don't see the male go crazy over them.