I am going to list some things I have done in the past with a person I am interested in who has a gf that he says he loves very much and sees himself marrying. Please tell me what you think. Is there nothing between us and its just me? Or does my friend just have to convince himself that he loves his gf but really has SOME SORT of feeling for me...here we go:
Constant tickle fights....lasting long periods of time, sometimes in public, most times in private. Ending up sweaty and hot and just kinda laying there side by side...oh yea, and a couple of times he got hard by it...lol
Sharing the same bed together on a trip where the gf was not present, and cuddling. Spooning together all night, his arm around me, and even asking at one point "am i making you uncomfortable?"and once i said no he just continued to have his arm around me and tickle me gently when we woke up the next morning. (he got blamed for cheating b/c of this btw...even though no kissing or anything like that happened)
Us crying together in each others arms when our best friend died...and us not really crying to other people.
talking until wee hours of the morning...im talkin like 4 am sometimes, even 6 am once.
him saying he can see himself with me, and even telling me that if he wernt with his gf, he could see himself with me...also telling me that his parents love me and tell him that we should date. they dont like his gf btw...
doing all sorts of activites together...just having fun with everything and anything we do
us spending all of our time together when he is in town.
okay...im done cause thats all i can think of, and please remember, he has been with his gf for 2 years, says he loves her, talks of his future with her. but to me it seems like he feels he HAS to convince himself of this...there seems to be more feeling there than us just being friends. anyway, answer to the list everyone, pleeeease, i need help with this to make sure im not the only one who thinks what i think