Hey peoples, i had this post in the male forum but i just realized i shouldve put it in the masturbation section..Me and my boyfriend have done everything except for one thing. i want to finger his ass until he orgasms. i know the gland is under his balls.but what types of finger motion should i do? i would REALLY appreciate any responses,experiences,suggestions on this one..it was kind of hard talking him into doing this so i really want to make him enjoy his first time with anal masturbation
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Making a guy orgasm from fingering his ass
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Well, it will be difficult to impossible to get him to orgasm from anal stimulation alone. Although a few guys can achieve orgasm from just anal and prostate stimulation, it is pretty rare. For most guys, massaging the prostate feels nice, but its not enough to bring on orgasm without stimulating the penis at the same time. However, if you bring on orgasm from stimulating the penis while at the same time massaging his prostate through the anus, then it will result in a much more powerful and longer lasting orgasm for him. To find his prostate, insert your index or middle finger ALL THE WAY inside his anus, as far as it will go, then press forward, towards his penis. You should feel a small, walnut-sized gland there, that feels a bit firmer than the rest of the area. That's his prostate. It can be a little tricky to find sometimes, so you may want to ask him to tell you when it feels good. When you press on his prostate, it will definitely feel good for him, but it may give him a peeing sensation at first which he may not be used to. But if he gets that peeing sensation, that's still his prostate. To massage it, just rub your finger back and forth and side to side over it. Be sure to press hard on it. It takes quite a bit of pressure to get it stimulated. Hope this helps.
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the only times I've experienced "protate only" orgasims have included a vibrator, never with fingers alone
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My husband says he couldn't achieve an orgasm from just prostate stimulation, but he LOVES it with a bj.
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it's just one of those things... you don't need to be totally goal oriented. You don't need to make hi cum from this, or any, spacific stimulation. It can be done but it's a bit rare.Here is some Tantra info http://whitelotuseast.com/ there is some greate advice on it here.
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Just in and out motions work fine for me. Add a b/j and your b/f will really enjoy it.
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How old are you nazgul just wondering? Is that you in that picture??
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- That is me.
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Before you get right into fingering his ass, I thing you should start with your tongue. When you're sucking his cock and licking his balls, just go down a bit lower and give him a rim job. Just lick around his asshole for a bit and see what his reaction is. Then you can try tongue fucking his ass. If he's cool with this, he should be fine with getting your finger in his ass.
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Rim job? YUK!!! I find that entirely digusting.