im 13 and my inner labia lips are longer than my outer ones. and its so embarassing and i dont know what to do. i CANT tell my parents because they wont understand because thats how they are. but ive never had sex or nething. i wanna kno why its like this. i looked online and it sed it could be from sports lik ebiking and running. and i do both often...could that be it? i really need help because it makes me so self consious. i cant go to the pool without feelin scared. im tired of my labia holding me back from having fun ... but theres no1 i can tell and i dont trust callin my doctor because i know she will call my mom and dad. and ijust CANT tell them because they'll think i was havig sex or something. they already dont trust me so they wouldnt believe me if i said its not tru. what can i do w.o tellin my parents?
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Labia...NEED Help
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it's normal, there are several threads in the forum on labia size
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whoa! hold on a second...what you are describing is perfectly normal. mine are just like that, as are many, many other women's! you must be trying to compare yourself to pics in magazines or porn sites -- absolutely NOT representative of what is normal. just like they show guys with HUGE dicks - not representative of normal either! and just like magazines, tv, movies show impossibly beautiful perfectly formed girls/women boys/men....again...NOT representative of normal, average people! embrace your uniqueness, and don't worry another minute that you "look funny". genitals, in general, look funny
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^^ What she said. It's completly normal. Mine are like that.
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Hey, mine are like that too. I posted something about it not too long ago. I do not like mine, but I do know that they are normal. I have heard the biking thing too, which I don't often do. I do run a lot though, but I think they might be how they are just cuz that's what I was given I guess. I assure you though, you are not alone, or a freak or anything like that.
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it's hereditary. you're mom or someone in the family must have them too..no one talks about it though. I didn't know anyone in my family had them until i brought it up to my mom.
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I kinda wish I could bring it up to my mom, but that would just be too akward. Some day....
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I dont see why you are worried about it. You are definately not the only girl (evan in your class) like that, and look around, its not bothering anyone eles is it??
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perfectly normal, even attractive if i may say.
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You are the one who knows yourself well enough. All of us are different, and you have nothing to be ashamed of yourself. Girls has different 'appearances' down there, some has long, some has fat and some has tiny labia. Be proud of what you have :smile:
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i have only ever seen larger lips in pornos, but i gotta say, I find them hot.
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you're lips are perfectly fine. i used to think i was "deformed" a few years ago..and i was actually goingto go to the exreme of almost giving myself surgery if you want to say and cutting them ( i have a very high pain tolerance) they used to make me soooo angry and i hated it..i thought someone cursed me to have labia like that ( mine arent really long or anything but i had never seen another vagina besides my own..only the drawings in books..and all of them look like a slit) so i thought you werent supposed to have something in between them(labia minora)..it drove me crazy until i went to the website tribalectic.com (a site with lots of piercing pictures) and i was looking at lip rings..then i saw a part with pictures of the female genital piercing pictures..so i went to it..and a huge wave of comfort if you want to say came over me...my concern about my lips kept me from doing anything sexual (which was a good thing i found out) until i found my boyfriend(which i still have) ..my lips are the reason why i kept myself ..i love them now..if it wasnt for them i couldnt say that my boyfriend was my only one.. :smile:..love your lips..dont hate them..they may end up being one of the best parts of your life
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heres the link to the site that made me love my lips..its not porn so dont worry..i suggest any one who is concerned if they are normal go here..there are hundreds of pictures (male and female)http://www.tribalectic.com/Body_Piercing_Gallery.asp
