As I grow...Friendships crumble

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Now coming to the finish of this year, I am seeming to lose friends. I came back this morning to find that there was a prank to be played to get people to put their matresses in the hallway. I went to our RA b/c I feared that they would put them in front of my door. I have now managed to piss off a person that was a friend, but now is calling me an asshole. It seems that my personality does not fit in. I mean when i see a prank like that, doesn't it become my business to tell my RA about it, not mattering that it had nothing to do with me, right?I did the right thing, but in doing so i did not do the "right" thing in some peoples eyes because now those two buddies or ex buddies are going to be in trouble if there are matresses in the hallway. I am not sure what they thought they were doing b/c they tried to get me, but i went right to our RA.

Dude, they'll get over it, you did the right thing, or you could of just talked to them before going to your RA and see if they were going to put them in front of your door. Either way, just tell them that you thought they were and I'm sure it'll be fine

I lived in the dorms at college and lots of stuff/pranks were done all the time. In my opinion, you overreacted. You turned out to be a cry-baby. Sorry if that pisses you off, but that's the way I see it.

well I am the prankster on the floor, but i am also the only one allowed to do it. My RA is that cool with me, but he also wants me to help him watch out for that type of stuff...a double standard...

So it's OK for you to do it but not for others??? And you rat out the others?? Not cool. No wonder they are pissed off at you. Why are you upset then? You deserve the cold shoulder.

could you dumben it down , because I didn`t really get it. What I understood was that you rat your friends out because they were gonna put some matresses in front of you door . right ?

it was to get everyone in the hall to put their matresses in the hallway = huge fire hazard especially on top floor.

i think i just was tired...I had spent 4 hours with Tara (10pm-2am) and got in my room at 2:30 and they tried to pull a joke, I am thinking that i was tired b/c i could care less right now what they did. I was cranky.

Fire hazard???? Sounds like something a geeky nerd would have complained about.

hahaha....Aeronautical....I was an ass, I see that now.

You gotta apologise to your (ex)friends

i did...they do not care.

Maybe theyll get over it, or maybe they werent real friends after all

what would you tell your kid if they did that same thing?I think you did the right thing walken.. you cant be childish and immature forever right?

First of all, these guys aren't real friends to you, more like dorm mates. Second, it's best to let go of almost every prank. Third, shrug it off and move on cuz it's no biggie.

yeah, i have moved on. But now i have other problems...so this is not getting any easier.

What problems now?

she used me...she blatently said i am done using you and then said oops...and i went off, and she addmitted to using her body and looks to do that too me...and i thought she was actaully interested, but you gotta move on.

yeah exactly.

What should I do if she tries to get a hold of me again? I am dead sure she will b/c she is that persitent. I was thinking of saying she has got to sleep with me for help, for the one reason that she will most likely not do it then...any suggestions, I really want her to feel what i have felt.