OK...let me give you a brief background before I start my story...My parents are divorced and im 15, male, strait(if anyone wats to know) And this story only includes me, my mom, and a guy that moved into my house when he got divorced.Ok...here it goes...There is this guy that lives in my house and we dont get along very well...I cant think of how to explain this really but I will try...When ever my family goes somwhere with him, my mom and him always get into some sort of arguement and he is pretty much angry for the rest of the day... He usually takes it out on me too because we dont get along...He abuses me emotionally and sometimes physically...Well it usually goes physically and emotionally after he hits me...The reasom that I am writing this today is because it happened again about an hour ago...the thing that happened an hour ago was because he said that I should pay for whatever amount of money my mom lost after buying me my trombone and reselling it...and he said that I just go to my mom for everything and never say anything to my dad about paying part of it...and then I got angry and gave him this look and he kept kicking me (this sounds really bad...he was kicking my legs pretty hard underneath the table we were sitting at...he would have hit me in the face if he could have reached me...)while my mom was sitting right there...and I know my mom cares about it and I think since we were being taken to the place we were, in his car, that she didnt want him to leave us there if they got in a big arguement...My mom cares about me a lot and defends me all the time against him(when me and the guy get in an arguement)...I hate him..sometimes he is ok to be with, but a lot of the time he is a complete jerk and I dont know what I should do If this abuse continues...PLEASE HELP!!!
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Big ABUSE problem...HELP!!!
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why does he fuckin live in YOUR house ? kick him out. tell you mom. tell you dad. tell a teacher / police. try to talk to him. beat him. damn i`m tired , yaaaawn
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im kinda afraid to do any of that because he is quite larger than me and he will know it was me or my mom or my brother that reported him...waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!! :frowning: :frowning:
He lives here because he had nowhere to go when he got a divorce with his ex...and he just never left my house...
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He seriously needs to move out, if he isn't getting along with your family then he should have nothing to do with you. Talk to your mom and arrange for him to be kicked the fuck out!!! You don't have to take it and he can't do anything if you report him.
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he could hurt my family or me... and its not that easy to just kick him out...my family isnt that well off on $ and he owns our computers and all and he is a good hacker too...
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Soo, you'll take the abuse because he owns the computer you get to use? That doesn't make much sense and doesn't add up. Nobody likes to be abused! You're scared of what he'll do, so go to the police. If you fear for your life, your family can get a restraining order against him. With that, if he tried to do anything, he could be arrested and charged.Action needs to be taken to get this guy out of your life.
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Okay so I can take my anger out on you for a little money and a computer? I think you are selling yourself a little too cheaply. Anyway, he can stay in a shelter for homeless jerks and your mom can rent the room to some hot college student so you have some good material for your private thoughts. And it's kida hard to hack people from a shelter or jail. (As I sugested in the message I sent you.)
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Exactly! There is nothing he can do to you. You're just letting him get away with it while you could be "accidentally" walking in on a naked college girl! (I love that idea by the way)
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COPS COPS COPS COPS COPS COPSI beat the crap out of the guy we live with and he has not given me shit, but in your case you need to call the police. You cannot have that happen, he could seriously injure you and cause some serious problems with your body. Call the cops and be a man about when the arrive, they will protect you...do it from the library and have them pick you and you can stay out of the houes and away from him.
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ive gotta talk to my mom about this issue...I dont know which action she would want to take and I will make all of these suggestions to her...I know it will be great to have him out of my house...Plus...I dont know if you would consider him the owner of all of our computers because i have gotten a few of the things that are in my computer as christmas presents from my parents and the computer has been in my room for like 4 years at least...would it be considered his computer because it is his sowtware on it???If it was considered his software I will just bring over my win98se disk from my other house and reinstall as far as the $ goes...he makes such a mess of my house and i think it would actually be cheaper in garbage stickers to kick him out...My mom asked me and my brother if we didnt want him living with us and we both said "he just makes such a mess of our house"and"he always complains about us not cleaning up his s#it"and"he never makes his kid do any of the work"(yes he has a kid also and he spends a day or 2 a week over at our house...he is a prick also)Well...I think I will give it a few days of talking over with my mom and brother to decide what action to take...
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yea and he hit me in my bad leg today :frowning:
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Rape his dumb fuck ass! Then kick him out! And his little dog too!!!!
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I know I'm a perv.
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lol naw...ur just trying to have fun and help at the same time...
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Col sanders2, he doesn't own the computers just because they have his software on them.It sounds like your mother is afraid of him too, but this can't go on, because the more he gets away with, the further he will go. Even if your mother is not prepared to do anything, something still needs to be done. There are a number of people who could act here. Child Protection Services could be involved. Is there a school counsellor? You could tell the school counsellor, who would then pass it on. Since schools in most places are obliged to report any suspicions of abuse, that way the initiative could appear to come from the school.
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if i dont have any bruises to show, would the child abuse people take my mother and brother as whitness's??
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They'd certainly talk to them.
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ok thanks
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Yes i have a school counselor that I can talk to, but that would be embarassing...but it needs to happen and I agree.and I wasnt saying that he owns them because his software on them...he actually brought these computers into our house and lets us use them...would they still be considered his because he brought them here???what it has in it of mine:60 gb hard driveVidio cardsound cardcameraand a few other things...So is it considered mine or his???
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the components on the computer that you bought are yours, whatever he brought is his.
