My screenname explains it all. I'm CLUELESS!I'm gonna ask simple questions... I mean, I know what they all are... I just wanna know how to do them right.Handjobs:How do you give a good one? I almost gave someone one for the first time, but I chickened out because I don't wanna screw it up! Please explain!Fingering:Me and this guy like eachother... and he tried to finger me the other day... and I ALMOST let him... But I chickend out again...My labia is kinda big, and like every other girl who has my problem, I am scared of what he will think. When guys finger you, do they actually stick there fingers up in there or do they just rub your crotch? Also, what do you do while he is fingering you? I dont wanna just be staring at eachother...ya know? HAHA...o god...Making out: Yeah, I do it alot...But i was just wondering, what makes a good kisser...and what makes a bad kisser? Thanks!
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How to...
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How old are you? Maybe you keep chickening out because you are not ready.
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No I'm not scared. I'm just scared I'll do it wrong or something.
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Practise makes perfect!
Almost nobody gets it right there first time, its all about learning from your mistakes. And talking to him and asking him if there is anything that you are doing wrong or if there is anything else he would like.
And about being fingered, if you are comfortable with him, let him do it to you. Again, if you communicate with him, tell him if he is doing something wrong or direct him to a spot that feels good, you will enjoy it. And he will have many pleasant memories of fingering his girlfriend.
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Handjobs:
How do you give a good one
Its really not that hard. Ever watched a porno? Just up and down, switching intensity and speed. Just see how he reacts to different things.
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When guys finger you, do they actually stick there fingers up in there or do they just rub your crotch?
They should do both vaginal and clitoral stimulation, in my opinion.
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Also, what do you do while he is fingering you? I dont wanna just be staring at eachother
Sit back and enjoy. If you feel comfortable, you can jack him off too.
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what makes a good kisser...and what makes a bad kisser?
GOOD- confidence, sensuality, multi-tasking
BAD- too much slob, too much tongue, biting too hard -
Clueless said " and he tried to finger me the other day... and I ALMOST let him... But I chickend out again...My labia is kinda big, and like every other girl who has my problem, I am scared of what he will think."Problem? What problem? Having large labia lips is not a problem, you should feel gifted.
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In reply to: Also, what do you do while he is fingering you? I dont wanna just be staring at eachother...ya know? I think if it's something that you're really both ready for and something that you both really want, your eyes and body will do whatever is good at the time. It's something neither myself nor anyone else can tell you to do. If you're really into it, what you do while it's happening will be natural and automatic.