I met this girl last year when we went to school together. It was boarding school so we saw each other all the time. She had sex with a few different guys before me but it was my first time. Then we fell in love. We dated for half a year and was really in love with her. We broke up over the summer after we'd been dating for about 4 months because we thought id be best since i'm going to college. Then she started dating this other guy a couple weeks. I was so in love with her that I had to get her back. So I went to her school and told her I love her and wouldn't leave till she got back with me. She did. We were back together for two months. It was hard because we were 3 hours away from each other. She broke up with me and started dating another guy. It really hurt and I tried to get over her but I couldn't. Me and this other girl kissed and I got under her shirt but shes pretty prude so it didnt get past that. So i havent had sex with anyone but my ex girlfriend. We started talking on the phone again after a month or so. We kept telling each other that we love each other a bit, but it starts to be not so often. Then after 2 months since we broke up and she got with the other guy, she tells me she regrets breaking up with me. We were about to get back together, but I told her don't get back with me until your sure you can deal with the distance. She visited a campus near mine one day and we hung out, we made out and did more, except for sex. I asked her out and she said she had to think about it cuz she didnt want to hurt me again. I was mad at her about that and I didnt talk to her for a week. When I finally talked to her she told me she was dating someone. After 2 weeks of dating him, they broke up and she talked on the phone with me and was crying cuz he used her. I brought her home with me for a weekend. We kissed twice, nothing more. And now she got into my college and a one close to mine, so next year we could be together. I still love her and she tells me she loves me. I'm going to her prom with her in a few weeks. Am I fool for not moving on? I love her but she really did hurt me. Should I get back with her?
What should i do?
Obviously she is a slut and you got to dump her. You to just keap getting back together for the sex. Calm down about the sex and look for someone who is actually good to you.
its not just about the sex tho. I'm really into her and I've wanted to be with her next year when we won't have to deal with the long distance shit.
You know she might just be using you as a "back up"...bare that in mind, in fact she probably is...
You're here to live. So live.
I think your mind knows the answer to your question
your heart is getting in the way
you will be sooo much better without her, find someone who will treat you right, she obviously isn't!
Get a taste of Old Time Religion..........lick a witch grin<br />
everyone who posted here is right. Dump her if you're looking for something longterm, cause she ain't it. Maybe <Maybe> in a few years after she gets some stuff sorted out.
**Yeah dude, I rock!**