Heya, long time all.For any that remember/care Mary was weird as hell and i fucked up with Jessica bad enough she doesn't talk to me anymore. For the last three months about I've been just dating around, not finding anyone worth while. My best friend ( a really cute girl) of about 3 years now has really liked me since she met me I found out a few days ago. I've told her everything from my great parent problems to...sexual expeiernces and we've always discussed anything and everything... I don't know if I like her or not on that level. I love her deeply for how long I've known her and how much we've helped eachother through things. I've been "inactive" =P for around a month now and I think she might take a shot (invited me over tomorrow night for dinner/movie night) and wants to go with me to Lake Tahoe for the weekend. Problem with this if she tries to make a move I dont know how I will react because I can't lose her how I lose my "real" exgf jessica...which was really my fault. I don't want to hurt her feelings on shutting her down or anything...but I just don't know if I want to go anywhere with her. Lol I am rambling but her friends have come up to me asking if I liked her and such, I always answered I love her, were great friends (we hang out a lot). I don't know we might have the relationship w/o the sexual part...Help please...I don't know what I have with her now, and what to take with it.
Long time guys, and a question or two ;).
you really have to ask yourself what you feel for your best friendif you saw her tomorrow run off with another guy, would you be jealous? or happy?u know how it goes, sometimse you dont know what you have til its gone bla bla blaonce you've found your answers regarding feelings for her, either take the oppurtunity or tell her that you just want to be good friends. being rejected is never easy, and she might not be that happy. unfortunately its life.but if you dont want to be with her, make sure she knows and not to drag her along with the hopes she'll win you overhope this helps somehow