When I am with my girlfriend...

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I don't feel very comfortable asking people about this kind of stuff... but I guess that's what this site is for.
I have this... err... problem. Whenever I am close to my girlfriend I get an erection. Its really interrupting and can cause embarrasing moments. Altough I'm trying to avoid those. One time we were dancing slow and it just... popped... ehh you know what I mean. So I kind of had to bend a little bit to hide it. I know its normal for teenagers my age (14) to get spontaneous boners, but all the other kids that were dancing seemed pretty "relaxed"... I just find that weird... did my hormone development start early, or did it start late, and other kids have passed that stage...?

I read this one post of someone that gets an erection from french kissing... so I guess it is normal...? (never french kissed before, I am planning on doing it soon...) but what about other stuff, like slow dancing?

yeah umm... its perfectly normal. As for the dancing, i garantee yo that 99% of the guys had boners. It's just that some dont care and it kind off turns the on at that age. So dont worry about it.

We see other people looking cool and we feel awkward ourselves, but we try to hide it: and that's what a lot of the other people are doing too - feeling awkward and trying to look cool.

but seriously some kids were like standing like flat to the girls... and holding their butts too...and what did you mean by "it kind off turns the on at that age"... it turns off at that age, or "turns on" at that age?

Well, not everyone gets erections so easily. I didn't, myself. So not everyone has that happening to the same degree - but it is nevertheless a common thing for a lot of teen guys.I think the other poster meant to say "it kind of turns them on at that age".And don't forget that many girls rather like the idea that they excite their boyfriends.

Don't worry about it, some men are still getting 'em when they're in their 20's! It happens to loadsa people so chill

I still get those at certain times and I'm not in my 20's any more! LOL

i get em alot and im 20 so dont feel bad

I'm BACK if you knew me back then, anyways, try to follow not to confuse you but this is why you get those....

Inside your brain are neruons that make it up.. ( how you get your short and long term memory, etc.)
Along with this is a member, with a bunch (thousands) of these what i would say something like small little balls ( this explains how you get your emotions)
That member with those little atoms create or assemble codes if you will and shoot them into your blood stream, all cells have little openings in which these codes "lock" into creating a mood...

So what your doing is fantasing about her and your member creates the code then shooting it into your blood to the cells and that is why you get boners, (notice she's never touched you in the way and you got it?)

lol sorry Lance, I had no reference other than a 21 year old so I didn't like to make assumptions that over 20's still get 'em

Well, It did happen to me when I was with my gf and we were dancing slow. We were together about 2 months and I was getting an erection even when we kissed in public. But I had no anxious and a plan! When it was happening, we got very close so I could hide it. And she wasn't embarassed at all! She liked the idea that she could erect me with just one kiss. After many times it was happening it stopped (it cannot happen all the time in my life!)And I am above 20 years old. So what is happening to you is ABSOLUTELY normal! I would find it suspicious, when it wasn't happening!