OK, Sometimes when I try to have sex with my girlfriend.. I jsut can't get my penis in her... It kinda seems like her vagina is to small...And by the time i get it in, I loose my boner because i spend so much time trying to put it in and the condom gets all fucked up.... Anyone have any suggestions on what to do??
Can't stick it in
You mentioned in an earlier post that you are just beginning to have sex? If she is also new to sex, she may be tensing up, making it difficult for you to enter. She may not be relaxing or it may be that she's not lubricated enough. Make sure there is plenty of foreplay. Finger her and make sure she is very wet before you attempt insertion. If you can't get her wet enough naturally, you'll need to use a lubricant like Ky.
You will also find that the foreplay should help to relax her. Make sure you choose a time and place where you are sure to be uninterupted for a long span of time. Guys tend to me anxious to get to the finish line. Girls often take a lot longer to get to orgasm. Take your time with her and make sure she is ready before you penentrate her. And, don't give up on the condom.
You can pm me if you need more info.
yes, we are just beginning to have sex and i am her first.. But it is weird, because sometimes it works and sometimes it just doesn't get in there... it can be frusturating... thanks for the help I will be PM'ing you
Yeah I agree with the foreplay and lube. Now if she isn't relaxed, I also agree you'll usually have a tough time getting in. Don't be afraid to use lube or take her needing lube as a negative either. No 2 girls are ever the same. Some get wet naturally and some require a little help at first.
my cock is fairly big 7.5- 8 inches when hard n massively 6-8 inches in circumference n i have tried usin lube forplay n ever fingerin a gurl untill i try n slide my cock in butt it never fitted in that gurl i had to kinda work it in my gurl freinds and now it is my size so no other guy can have sex with her cuznk it is loose but for me its tight n perfect
Between 6 and 8 inches in girth is a very big difference. Why don't you figure out what it really is before you go around talking smack.
As far as I'm concerned, the idea that a guy's dick is so big that'll it'll permanently loosen up a vagina, is a myth. The vagina should revert back to its original form. Plus the female vagina can pretty much accommodate most penises under most circumstances.
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As far as I'm concerned, the idea that a guy's dick is so big that'll it'll permanently loosen up a vagina, is a myth. The vagina should revert back to its original form.
Not the vagina SHOULD the Vagina DOES.......bare in mind that Babies come out of there, it would the end of sex for every women who had had a child if it didn't. </font color>
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I love it when people say the FEMALE vagina. So whats the male vagina like? lol
The male vagina has a dick attached to it.
The last post was REALLY funny!
Anyway, I am living the same situation... And I must advise you this: sex is really not simple!!! Sometimes I felt really hopeless when I was trying to have sex with my gf. I needed much patience to go through this situation. So, I advise you:
a) PATIENCE. That means also that you have to be supportive with your gf, and you have to face that she'll pain in the early stages. In fact, she may won't enjoy the first time, bacause she'll be in extreme pain.
b) FOREPLAY. Yup! I think foreplay is necessary. Just do it at any cost :P
c) KEEP GOING! As you keep trying to have sex, she won't pain that much... But you have to try A LOT!
d) RELAX! Try to show yourself relaxed, so your gf will try to be, too.
Sry, I am not a teacher... I'm in the same position with you.. But I keep trying. I hope that someday sex will feel for me and my gf just like magic
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