Mom & Dad

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Erm this is going to sound so so sad but here goes, My room is next to my mom and dads and sometimes u get to hear things going on, like sex lol this happend sunday night i was in bed watching tv, heard a few noises but thought nothing of it, but then u cud hear them more and i knew they were doing it and this is the sad part i cudnt help listening to them knowing dad was erm my mom lol, and i ended up doing somethink, anyway i cant stop thinkin and want to hear them again, when i see mom cant help thinin things, i cant help it dunno if im sad or what but it was kinda hot, guess im a said cow aint i

**very sad **

Girl_Gymnast, don't think of yourself as a sad cow, please. Be nicer to yourself.

You're kind of contradicting yourself. You say it's not a big deal yet for you it was awful, scary, violent.

i guess depending on your age you could be naturally curious

Something is wrong if you get turned on by hearing your parents having sex.

i read it wrong, i didnt think he met turned on in that case...something is wrong there

You were conceived by a method that makes you want to throw up.

I still can't understand why people feel so disgusted by their parents having sex. I mean, I don't find it stupid, but I've felt like that, so it's difficult to put myself in their place. Is it the idea of your parents as sexual beings, or just the mental image of your parents doing it that shatters your romantic image of the perfectly sculpted couple?As for me, sure, I wasn't trilled when my parents would 'mysteriously' go to sleep in the same bedroom once in a while (they usually sleep in different rooms on different floors because my dad snores too loud), but I'd just shrug and go to sleep myself. My sister and I both knew what was going on, but just didn't care. They were very silent in an case.

No1: You know what I meant.
Most people have weird hangups about sex. The idea of parents having sex is one of them. Maybe it starts in childhood, where kids who see their parents having sex think someone's getting hurt; maybe they resent the idea of their parents making them a new sibling; maybe their culture teaches them that it's gross for their parents to show signs of physical affection; maybe their culture or religion teaches them that sex is bad, and they don't like the idea that their parents are "bad"; maybe they're embarrassed by _anything_ their parents do.

Well, the idea of encouraging/reinforcing this behaviour is definitely not healthy (thinking about your parents sexually I mean). Although being young, curiousity and arousal is hard to control.For example, my bedroom is just under my sister's (who's a bit younger that me). Once, she and her boyfriend (who was my best friend at the time) had sex in her room while I was reading in mine. I didn't get to hear much, just a bit whimpering, but it was enough to understand and even follow what they were doing. And I must shamely admit that I masturbated and came while listening.To my defense, I was just a horny teen and I just couldn't control myself. That's not to say that I was excited about either my friend or my sister, quite the contrary. It was more the idea of two people having sex right over me, and wishing it could happen to me too.As for you and your parents, well, if you're actually getting excited thinking specifically about your parents, you're getting on a potentially dangerous slope. I would seriously advise you to refrain about doing it as much as possible. It could really mess up your relationship with them, in pretty much the same way that a mother falling in love with her daughter's boyfriend is bound to cause lots of trouble for everyone unless she controls herself and represses those feelings.

Im sad to admit i did they same, when i heard my mom and dad do it, just found it really hot knowing and next day when i saw mom i cudnt help thinkin about the prev night, but i think about it alot even when i masturbate i know its strange but i cudnt help it, i dont mean to upset any of u if i have sorry

For me personally.... Seeing a thread titled Mom & Dad in the sexuality, fetishes and sexual addiction section made me want to chuck.... I used to read these books by this woman called Nancy Friday that my flatmate used to own (serious feminist to the point that I couldn't even open my mouth, she was so fuckin sexist! ) Anyways Nancy Friday came to the conclusion that our parents sexual behaviour seriously affected the childrens in later life.... One woman found it impossible to get turned on without lots of noise etc...cos (apparently...) she was so used to hearing it with her mum.... Not exactly sure whether I agree.... but there you go....

There used to be a theory among certain psychologists that seeing parents copulate ("the primal scene") was intensely damaging to young children. It was one of those theories that become trendy without any evidence that actually back them up, and it seems to have disappeared as quickly as it arose. Just as well for all those third-world families living in single rooms.

As far as I know, mainstream anthropolgists think that, in primitive times, families slept together, all in one "bed". Children would be fairly attractive targets to a predator; it probably wan't safe to leave them off on their own at night.A lot of ideas in psychology come and go; many of those ideas are driven by political/cultural ideology.

I always thought kids knowing their parents had a good and healthy sexual relationship was a good thing, maybe I was wrong. :confused:

Nope, it is a good thing but for some people it could be damaging. sex life is what keeps most mariges together.

Girl Gymnast, how old r u?

she says she's thirteen, having sex, walked in on her brother masturbating, made him continue while she watched... she is so full of it.

Im 14 soon.And i dont care what u all fink of me