Possibility of pregnancy?

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You haven't upset me, but you two are really too young to be having sex. What would happen if she is pregnant?

I would do all I can to help support the child. We could give it up for adoption, as well, but I really don't believe in that. Her parents would never let me speak to her again, though, which would make it difficult... but I would do all I can to support the child. If it happens, I made the mess, i'm going to clean it up.

Regardless of whether or not you are ready for sex, the fact is that she is right: there is a very real possibility of pregnancy. The calendar method (timing sex to avoid the period of ovulation) is notoriously ineffective, and if you can ejaculate, then you might well be producing sperm (albeit not as much).You will have a few nervewracking weeks while you wait to see if she is pregnant, unfortunately. You will have to wait even longer if she doesn't want to take a pregnancy test over-the-counter.The emergency contraception is a good idea. Unfortunately, it may not be available in your area or it might require parental consent. If this is the case, then you might want to look into getting some contraceptive pills from a female friend (the ones you take each day) and having your girlfriend take three of them at once. Be forewarned this is extremely dangerous, however, and you really should consult a doctor. The chemical used in the morning-after pill is the same, but the dose is dramatically higher. If she feels ill the next day, this is normal.Always use a condom.

The muscle thingy isn't developed enough for me to ejaculate yet, so that's not a reality

When you become sexually aroused, your penis usually secretes a small amount of a clear fluid from its tip, commonly called "precum." It serves as a sort of lubrication. It also contains sperm, however. This is why it is not safe to have unprotected sex, even if you pull out when you finish.So it is an issue, most likely. Sorry.

That's as far as it ever goes for me, though. I've only actually came one time in my whole life,a nd that was wet-dream. Any other time it's just clear.

Your first time outside a wet dream could happen any time - you don't want it to be inside your girlfriend without protection! And, as has been mentioned, the clear stuff (pre-cum, presumably) could contain some sperm.

I suspect that what you did is likely to be repeated some time despite all good intentions, so I'd urge you to get some condoms and practice putting them on so you know how to use them.

Trust me, I know. I've practiced since age 8, but this (what was stated in the first pose) happened about 2.5 - 3 weeks ago now, and it was my first time. Also, does oral/manual sex count as sex to you? For some people it does...

You better be buying a pregnancy test.

If you are actually admitting that you are too young to even be physically ready for sex, WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING? OMG, what the hell is wrong with kids? You'll probably have a life long disease such as herpes or warts by the time you are fourteen. And I'm not saying anything bad towards anyone with one of these diseases, but trust me, you don't want to have to deal with that. Imagine telling every single person you dated that you were interested in sleeping with that you have a disease? Or paying child support for eighteen years when you aren't even able to work legally for five more? Your parents aren't going to want to pay for your mistakes! THERE IS PLENTY OF TIME TO HAVE SEX! This is just maddening to me.

It's the whole lack of responsibility bit.

Sorry, I wasn't clear, eXistenZ. When I said "first time", I meant first time ejaculating sperm. I took what you said to mean you haven't had a real ejaculation yet, except in a wet dream, and I was pointing out how awkward it would be if you discovered you were having it for the first time when inside your girlfriend without protection.However, even without full ejaculation, it's dangerous not to use a condom. Your pre-cum could contain sperm.

Doesn't it have to be white? I've actually, truthfully never had white ever. Only clear... Edit: I need serious help now, she's 3 days late... is there anythign I can do to stop it? anyhting like ap pill she can take?

When you first start ejaculating it may be clear for a while, until all the glands are working properly. Clear cum may still contain sperm, however.

Three days late can happen because of worry, but you can do a home pregnancy test. You can buy them over the counter.