Am I gay? Unsure and confused

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Over the past few weeks I have been fighting a creeping feeling in my mind that I have been gay. It's been growing stronger and stronger and tearing apart every second of my day. Here is just how I feel.:conserning Guys: I find no real atraction to them and the thought of having a penis put anywhere inside of me makes me sick. Also, I could never see myself kissing a guy. There is only one area in which I like guys but still have been battling myself over it. I am also finding it easier to get erect over guys instead of girls, but this changes from time to time. I also tried to test myself to see if I found gay porno at all pleasing and it was some really nasty ****. So I ask you guys, does this seem like I am gay?

wait, how can you find no sexual attraction to guys but get erect from them?

The only place I find guys at all atractive is if they have a tight ass, but other than that that, nothing really. I know, it's odd.

I dont think your gay, i think that your going thru a time when your curious about sexuality, but your not gay.

That is the BEST:D news I have heard in the past month...I'm not saying being gay is bad or anything, but it's just something I would never want myself. But on another note, when I masterbate, I can find it a bit more arousing if I think about a guys ass along with girls. But like you said, I don't really find anything but that oart attractive in men, so I'm pretty sure it's just curiosity.

It's normal during your sexual development to be curious and even excited by both sexes. Gay thoughts or even an isolated gay action do not make your gay--only experiential. The fact that you say that the thought of having a penis put anywhere inside you makes you sick should give you a pretty good clue to your true sexual preference. It's normal to like the looks of a toned body. Maybe you're just checking out the competition.

I spent fifteen years wishing I wasn't gay. Figuring that being gay was just too difficult. Now that I'm out on that front, I regret all those years of limiting myself to women.

Honestly, Lekter, you just sound like a horny guy. Homosexuality goes beyond just body parts. I've heard your situation from a lot of straight guys. It's really not a big deal. Sexuality is so fluid anyway. I don't think anyone is 100% anything.Fuck labels.

See Im not gay but I know your feeling, I was confused about my sexuality. And I dream abouta guys tight ass, but only with a female and the tight ass male me. So dont be worried, I dont think your gay, your just confused about your sexuality.

You're probably not gay but that is all up to you. I can imagine a guy sucking me off but I can't really imagine returning the favor, though I have thought of it at times. Basically, I don't mind looking at bisexual porn as long as a woman's involved. If it's just two men, then it doesn't turn me on. With a woman involved, I like it. Especially when the man's fucking the woman and the other man is fucking him. It's just hotter when a woman's involved.Honestly, I'd prefer to stick with women but I'm always open to experimentation.You will find what you want. It will just take time.

On another note, how long can a phase like this last?

In reply to: how long can a phase like this last? You're thinking too much. Relax and enjoy life. It's far too short to get serious hangups.

No sense in worrying too much, and as someone already said, sexuality is fluid anyway. Take me for example. As far as relationship goes, I'm strictly attracted to women, yet for sex in itself, I could see myself doing both, although at this point it's still theoritical, what with being a virgin and all. As far as faces and overall body go, I'm definitely and almost entirely attracted to women, yet I am strangely fascinated by penises and asses. In any case, sexuality isn't just black or white, just like anything else in life.

Thanks for all the comments, it helps to know what is going on. And it does seem likely that I am just horny and going through sexual development. Right now, I can only get erect from guys and I find it takes longer to masterbate if just thinking about girls. But since sexuality is more than body parts and I find no other attrection to men, I can see I am not gay.It's logical to think of it as a phase I am just going through. I just hope I can get my attraction to girls back to where it used to be and lately it seems to be a bit stronger.