Scared....

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Yeah, but if I had 5.5" girth I wouldn't be scared either. A little over 4.5" girth looks pretty small on me. The girl I had a chance to do stuff with isn't exactly my girlfriend, we're more friend's than in a relationship(sounds dumb if we were gonna have sexual activity).

**your size is nothing to worry about, and you still have growing to do, many posts on the boards say that girth is the last thing to 'grow' during puberty apparently, so don't worry about it. **

It's natural to be concerned about not measuring up but pornos should not be the standard you measure to. Just like few of us have the talent to be a professional athelete but can still enjoy sports, few have the equipment they show in the pornos yet can still enjoy sex. However, you're not that far off and, as you have rightly observed, are not through puberty yet so you've still got some growing to do. Enjoy girls and enjoy the experiences with them. Chances are that when you're comfortable with a sexual experience, she will be too. It's all about confidence. If you've been reading the posts here, you've probably figured out how to show a girl a good time. If you're one of the best she's ever had, that's what she'll remember--not the equipment you have. As has been said many times, it's not what you have but how you use it. Good luck. Just be sure to use protection and let us know how you're doing. Feel free to PM me if you like.

If only the girls my age(I just turned 18) were really like that. I remember the girl I liked having a conversation with one of her friends about a previous boyfriend she had with a small penis and was laughing about it(also the only guy she had ever slept with). She is 17 btw. So I am just afraid that I am gonna end up being THAT guy she talks about having a small penis..

I was always a little worried too. Best way to go about it is next time your with your gal and she makes a move to go down there just clear your head and try to relax. Thats what i did and it worked. The key is not to get nervous and tense.

Well, girthdepression, thickness often lags behind length when growing - if you're a bit late in other respects, you may still grow thicker.

However, I think the real problem is a general lack of self-confidence. You are only just below average girth (and a little over average length). If you had enough confidence, your size wouldn't worry you.

How can you get better? Well, one thing you can do to deal with your fear is go ahead anyway. Courage doesn't mean not feeling scared - it means feeling scared but still doing it. If you show courage to yourself, you'll see that you can do things, you'll feel more confident, and in time your fear will decrease.

I had this exact problem, and your measurements are fairely similar to mine. You understand 6 inches is average? not small. I am only just comming out of a long series of problems (my current problems feel less serious and dont depress me). Get into a relationship if you can, witha girl you really care about. I am in one such a relationship and it makes things alot easier cos i can trust her and she has been patient with me. Thats way i dotn have to make excuses. I used to say to girls "I'm not ready" when infact all I wanted to do fuck them right away but my mentality caused me to fear taking that step. Now I can tell my girl the truth, I tell her "I need to be cofortable and I dont wanbt to rush". When you have a girl let you take your time tyou should be fine cos you can just take it a step at a time.

You understand 6 inches is average? [And re: the last thread]Yes! In fact, it's slightly above average.

YAY I'm above average, go me.

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